I broke up with my first love. I loved him so much that i don't wanna lose him anymore. But now he is already gone. I wanna move on...It's too much difficult to let him go. It's hurting me every day and night. 

I know sometimes it's difficult to move on as you put lots of time and effort into the relationship. 

But, just give yourself time. Things get better with time and cry because it's important so that all your emotions are come out. 

Delete his photo and blocked him. 

Eventually you will move on and everything will become normal again, trust me. keep your chin up … everything will be okay

Breakup

Hey guys, 
*Storytime* 
I was in a relationship for 1.5 years and then two months ago we broke up because he said he wanted to "find himself". 
I was shattered but it only took me 2 months to pick up myself and move. After I broke up with that guy, I started talking to a lot of guys just to distract myself. 
All of the talking was casual and nothing more, at all. 
Until I started talking to this guy and I fell for him. 
I was extremely happy and my friends were happy too that I had someone good in my life but I started to think "what if I moved on too soon?". I deeply loved my ex, today too he'll always a soft corner but I was ready to throw that in my past and leave it there. 
The new guy was AMAZING, can emphasise the amazing. He's a complete nerd, and I never though nerds would be my type but he sure is. He's the type of person who can make you feel as if everything will work out. I realllyyyyyy like him and obviously, I'd want to date him or take things to the next level but I can't. He's charming in ways I can't even describe. My friends said this "the honeymoon phase" but honestly I haven't looked at a guy more objectively than this. 
Unfortunately, we'll have to part ways soon because we'll be going to different countries soon and we don't want to do long distance.

Conclusion: Everything taught me that there are "good" guys who're there out somewhere, we just need to look for them and cautiously watch out for the toxic guys. 
And even though things won't have an ending that I want, I will be grateful for having someone like him in my life who taught me that with bad things, good things do come. 

Thank you for reading. 
Love y'all 💗💗💗💗

Relationships

I was in a relationship with a guy for a few years, we broke up and again got back after 1 and a half years after our break up. Everything seemed right i felt the breakup has taught him that i matter and my feelings too. But i didn't know something worse was awaiting. He came up to me one day and said he is getting married tomorrow. It wasn't that his family  forced him to .It was a love marriage.  I feel she was the reason why I felt alone in the relationship in the beginning and once we broke up he went back to her. 
He begged me saying he loves me and can't be without me  but he is married now . I STILL TALK TO HIM. It's not like i want to buy it I loved him with all my heart and the fear of being lonely. 
It's been 2 years and 5 months I'm still in contact with him. Still he says he will leave her and come back to me. I don't know what to do about it i don't feel it's right.
I want to come out of this mess. It's been draining me for 2 years now 

Depression

How do I stop loving someone or stop missing someone...  I know he will never understand me no matter how much I try.. he stopped loving me.. because I couldn't change my personality and my entire self as per his choice.. a few years back, when we cam in relationship.. he wanted to change my dressing style, and everything... even my way of walking.. I was so madly in love that I agreed to all of it, but with time I realized that I was not happy, although I still loved him.
I know that even after so much efforts to be his favorite, he stopped loving me one day.. I just don't know how to put my thoughts into words. I just want to stop loving him.. and start loving myself now. live my life on my own terms.. I just need to figure out the HOW maybe

Love

So he blocked me bcz we r in long distance relationship due to this lockdown and it’s not possible for me to see him now but he refused to talk until we meet again , I hv just failed to convince him to continue, I mean our relationship is on hold till v met ,  this is really frustrating, don’t know what to do , I can’t live without him but it is impossible for me to see him bcz of my family problems ,  the worst part of our relationship was indulging in some sort of physical activities, just bcz of those mistakes m afraid of loosing him , now I really don’t know what to do 


There was this guy i found online, during the pandemic. He was frm other country, but we used to talk all day. We got close, till an extent, where we were didn't care about our age he was 18 and I'm like 23. We shared a lot of things and had nice bonding. Until he told me that the connection wasn't real at all. He just has been ignoring me since that time. I don't have any source to reach out and talk with him. I don't know why i got attached, and now I'm just totally lost.

Hey guys,
I was in a relationship 4 years back, and he was too possessive and short tempered with ofcourse some wonderful qualities as well. We constantly had our fights and one day he raised his hand on me because of which I broke up with him and never looked back. Now after 4 years, i drunk called him and feel so guilty about it. Like i want to talk to him not because i want to get back, but because i feel lonely at times. Should o do it ? I mean it's so confusing. I remember what he did, but still I want to just talk. Can anyone say something which can make me feel less pathetic please

Anxiety

Hi guys,
So since the coronavirus started, we got quarantined. I got far away from my friends due to lockdown. In college, there was this guy named Raghav started asking me for notes. But then after a period of time we shared our Instagram and snapchat id's. But since I am a science student I was not well aware of how to use both of them(P.S: Now I am). So we started talking a lot. But since I was not able to use them properly, this guy thought that I am kind of stalking him or typing something but not sending him. So he told his friend Sahil to talk to me. Well I found him weird at first but then we started talking a lot. We found out that we had so many common interests and also shared same kind of humor. Well after 2 months of talking, Sahil asked me to be his girlfriend. But it was too sudden for me. Well the main reason was that we had not met yet and also I have only seen him on his Instagram feed and also I was not sure about my feelings for him, I didn't wanted him to keep hanging over me. So I explained him my situation and he agreed and said that's ok, it happens well we can even be bestfriends. So since that day until now that is 8 months we have been talking daily not a single day goes without talking to him. And still we haven't met but I started realizing that I have been getting strong feelings for me. But now I don't know if he still likes me or not. Since our main exams are just a month away and he wanted to study seriously, so he removed all of his friends from snapchat and just kept me since it is convenient for me to talk on snapchat. If you want a description of him; he is very kind, cracks lame jokes, has weird kind of humor, always makes me happy if I am upset and never forgets to send this cute goodnight messages.

Boyfriend

I loved a guy for 4 years and he was my best friend. It was all one sided. But he always treated me like I am his gf. He would constantly make up if I was angry. He would listen to me and ask me questions. He was shy. He never said no to PDA. I would hold his hand, touch his face, give him random doses of physical affection, remove any bits from his face, touch his chest, hold his face with both my hands, apply makeup on his cheeks, walk around with my hand through his arm, pulls his cheek, stare into his eyes while making doe eyes. He never said no to anything. Like ever. He showed annoyance when I talked about other guys. He would carry my bag and not say a word because I guess it was uncomfortable for Me. He moved to Australia this year and he loves it there. He is planning in settling there too. 
But how could he not feel anything for me? Like ever? 



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