I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. We were together from last 6 years. We wanted to marry each other but my parents are not happy with this decision of mine. So we decided to break up because we both don’t want to hurt our parents. Since we are not together I feel like I’m dying. I can’t bear this
If the reason is just parents, reconsider your decision as your6the ones who had to live your partner. If you both believe strongly in your relationship, other than love there is compatibility connection and more than consideration for each other
Please reconsider and convince your parents. Don’t leave each other hands at this time
Stay strong together
I’m trying to deal with this situation. My parents loves me too. Is it okay to hurt them for my happiness. Is it ok to be selfish for sometime
Acceptance is also necessary, I think make them understand. That you loved to spend the rest of your with your partner you want to understand is all yo u nee here reason behind not accepting the person you love
SOMETHING @littlelord125
You should try hard and put some efforts to make your parents agree on him just put some extra effort and you’re right u Can’t hurt your parents
Is it okay to block him from every where or we should’ve stayed friends for some more time.
SOMETHING @littlelord125
Its totally depends on you if u can make him only your casual friend that will hurt more
I totally understand this feeling
Tell me what to do next. 'Cause I’m sure I’ll mess up
can’t you give it a try after few days
may be trying to convince them (your and his parents/family) might help you in dealing this
and if not then just remember you parted ways mutually and he will always be with you (not physically) but he will always wish for your happiness
Be happy with the fact that you can stay connected and be good company and yes family is also important if they worth this (not the case with everyone)
I chose family and still I am suffering that I should’ve chosen him over family
so your case is not like mine be happy good things will come to you
but if you think you are on the same track or going to be on the same track like mine in near future please chose your love
family is not always worthy of what you sacrifice for them
more power to you
The kind of communal hate our parents share for other religion scares me. He’s Muslim and I’m hindu brahmin . My parents love me and I’ve sacrifices every thing for them including my dreams, future goals and so many other things because I love them. I’ve actually never told them about him because I know what will happen next. We have to leave each other because in next 3 years he’ll be married. Maybe I’m sad because I wasn’t ready for this and I broke up because I want to run from my feelings , this pain I don’t know what to do. Maybe this is not the time for me to letting him go or I’m not ready for this
