Chitra @myupdate
I broke up with my boyfriend whom i met on tinder. We were in a serious relationship since past 3 months but i used to think about our future. He wishes to get married after 5 years and i cannot wait for five years
Chitra @myupdate
Everything was good, he treated me so well, still i had to break up considering our future together
Theja Prajesh @_xoxo_
Have u met in person?
Chitra @myupdate
Yes, he lived in the same city and visited me daily
Chitra @myupdate
Of course we love each other, but he is insisting that we should be friends and doesnβt want to loose me
Mayank @true_who
Thinking of future is good but yk what sometimes itβs worst.We hve to stick to present to live happily nd peacefully. Donβt u think it wasnβt good decision for breaking up with him for such a reason. Maybe being in relationship with u may change his mind after some time. yk time changes everything.Think of ur bond na .U r destroying ur present for the sake of that future which no one can predict exactly
Chitra @myupdate
His family is too conservative to accept me since weβre from different caste and i donβt think heβll ever be able to take stand for me
Chitra @myupdate
Your words are healing
Mayank @true_who
Hve u discussed this issue with him? Canβt u make him into confidence for taking a stand for whom he loves,for u? If we consider this issue,then breaking up at early stage is correct coz after some period,as relationship matures,bond becomes strong nd builds a different level of understanding .At that phase,breaking up isnβt that easy nd haunts afterwards .
Mayank @true_who
Glad,it helped u
... @sony_12
Exactly π― u are right
Mayank @true_who
Hve u suffered this type of situation too?
lucky kushwaha @happy_soul...
Whatβs your age group buddy.?
Zealous @aidinghearts
Real man always wants to provide best things to his partner, it takes time for a person to settle down as marriage is much larger than love, it needs understanding, respect and bills to be paid on time. I guess, you both need different people to be with. So, yes, you took right decision.