I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago and we have had zero contact since 10 months. Meanwhile i used to talk to my senior, he was very supportive and sweet. I kind of fell for him but we haven’t had any contact since last 6 months. Now that i see my ex enjoying in college, i feel bad. Moreover i have heard that he was after a girl, i felt more bad. Although i don’t wanna get back with him, or ever talk to him or see him because he was very abusive (both physical and emotional) and toxic with me.
So your decision a year ago was right. You shouldn’t feel bad about what he is doing with his life now. and if you think you like your senior, you should probably try contacting him.
Well seems like i won’t ever have a love life. I and my senior, we were really on good terms but i feel he was just using me for emotional support until he got placed. After that he started ignoring me and stopped talking
you will find someone who genuinely cares about you, you can’t lose hope like that.
your decision is the best for u cause the one you love doesn’t treats you right and is damaging you from inside and outside .And one day you will find a king that will treat you like queen and you both would build a empire . Till then focus on yourself
But why do i feel bad, even when i don’t ever wanna be with him again or even see him
you probably are feeling bad right now cause you have a dopamine void right now. all of us have it, some try to fill with relationships, some people get it from the work they do, some get it by doing exercise.
You just need to find your source of dopamine.
You feel bad/sad because you miss him. The good times that you guys had. Nothing else. Also, your senior is a No-Go anymore.
Spend time with your friends. Enjoy being single for this time.
I don’t miss the time i spend with him, because most of it was awful and bad. I just have flashbacks, when i see the weather or during evenings
Also i miss my senior more, i stalk him on Instagram and create fake scenarios that he’d call or msg me one day
Please don’t do that. You end up getting more miserable.
Don’t feel bad because he is after another girl. Feel bad for that girl.
And its human behaviour, one year down the line it won’t even affect you. Give it some time. It heals everything. ❤️❤️