I broke up with my boyfriend 3+ months ago… I still sometimes talk to him. But whenever I do, I don’t feel good. I don’t want to be a bad person. He’s also kind of struggling with the breakup. I don’t know what to do. Adding to that, I have a very important exam in 3 months. I am mostly working towards it, however this breakup is causing me troubles in focusing. :(
I wish I could tell someone everything about what happened… but I don’t want to talk bad about him because he wasn’t a bad person. It’s just that many of his actions in the past still hurts me. Some days I am clueless. Some days I feel like I did the right thing breaking up. At least I don’t have to disturb myself or jeopardize my career because of relationship. Umm… I still don’t want him to be hurt so much or hopeful at all that I’d come back one day. I also want to focus on studies better. I already am kind of doing better than before but I need improvements. I don’t know what I am writing even with teary eyes (I just talked to him idk why).
Hey… It happens in breakup… Though it hapnd cause of other person it does hurt… As you said u have exams, you should concentrate on it.
If you wanna share your story and feel better you can do that here…
All the best
I loved him… you know… I really did… there was a part of me that didn’t like him. I knew I was going to breakup one day. I didn’t feel like I was treated right. He tried his best but it wasn’t right. Some things were wrong. I should have set boundaries… I tried but he always rejected my thoughts. He used to say, you want to talk about this thing because you’ve read something on the internet. He made me uninstall Quora. He didn’t force me to do anything but I was emotionally manipulated somehow. There are millions of things I want to talk about… I doubt if could.
Yes I want to get out of this…
How can you help me?
Why not here?
Exactly Anonymous :)
I have been trying to concentrate Mostly on my studies only… but sometimes I just get too emotional. I don’t know if I should ignore him totally or what else should I do…
MM @monkeymind
See sometimes it’s not about the right or wrong
Or even if the person was good or bad…
It’s just if he isn’t good for you if you didn’t sense that happiness with so just leave him
Don’t bound yourself with guil of leaving such a good boy or so…
It will take time but soon everything will be better and you will be much stronger and happier thn before 🤗🤗
And feel free to share we will be listening to you without judging anyone and hope you will overcome all this soon☺
Stay healthy, be happy 😊🤗
Thank you :)
MM @monkeymind
Happy to help 🤗
And just be confident about your decisions… Because I think you did right but going back to him won’t be a good decision (Just an opinion) 😅
