I badly don’t wanna have kids, how do I convince my husband.
I’m not married yet but I’m worried on what he’ll say 


Well first of all I’m a person who is very sensitive to pain. I do fall sick sometimes because of my less immune system. I think the world is a already a screwed up place and I don’t wanna bring a kid here despite knowing how the future will be. 

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Hello People..Hope you all are having a very nice day😀
This is going to be my first post..I dont know where to start form...But I cant't keep all this feelings inside me anymore now..so Here it is
He is my college friend. We were a group of 5-6 people very close friends ..wld always hang out together just like any other normal group wld do. He use to irritate and tease me a lot…always joking around. During College we use to talk and play games a lot.. but other than that we never talk or chat on any social media platform until and unless if anything was important…College is over now since last two years..and we communicate only when our whole group is planning to meet somewhere that too once in 4-5 months. Now whenever he texts me.. He just flirts ! I know he is already a Flirt..so I took it casually too. And when we all do meet..he is somewhat extra protective towards me..always around me.
But then this guy now started dropping a lot of indirect hints as if he has some feelings for me….He says he misses me and want to meet me…spend some time together.. He was not like this before..and never talked like this before. I can feel his behaviour has changed towards me… ( I dnt understand what to think ). And whenever he thinks our conversation is getting even a bit serious…he immediately backs off..and never texts again for some months straight…( Now wth is this ? ) 
I do have other guy best friends too…but they never talk in this way..
Can this be just Infatuation ? Is he just joking around ? I am confused as hell ! What do I do ? I am tired of overthinking…We are not even in regular touch…but this guy has messed up my head ! 
The more I decide not to think of him..the more I end up  keep thinking of him..(ok I agree I might have a lil bit of crush too…but I am not sure)
I am damn sure if I ask him directly what he is upto...He would definitly deny everyhting saying he is just kidding as usual !
This situation might be common for some of you ..isn’t it?
Somebody tell me where all this is heading? Or I am just overthinking ?
Bcz all this is giving me super anxiety now…and I cant even focus on any task I do…
Thanks in advance !




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Can someone help? 
Okay so here it goes, I had a boyfriend. We were in a relationship for 6 years but during that period he cheated on me so many times, abused me, and did so many things without my consent. Itni hadd tak mere saath bura kiya ki mera uske saath rehna majboori ho gaya tha. 
I broke up with him jaise taise. It's been 4 years since our break up and i feel disgusted about it all. 
I have been in depression since, developed ADHD because of him. 
I haven't properly slept since. 
He's been calling me from different numbers on my phone, so I changed the sim card. Now he's messaging me on my social media platforms. 
Blackmailing me for photos. 
I don't know what to do. 
My parents never knew about him
He blackmails me that he'll come to my house and spill every thing to my father. 
I don't know what to do! 
Please someone help!!! 

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I have always been the respectable and good employee. The management has been very impressed with my work all this while but since the last few months, my performance has been down, it has certainly not been great, I have not been able to achieve the targets. Honestly, there was a clear lack of verbal and monetary motivation. For a long time I have been on a low payscale and designation, I'm not saying that's all that matters but somewhere somehow it may have affected me. I have very few people under me which is a good learning experience and I am directly reporting to the super boss. Recently, I started bucking up, becoming more confident and completing my pending work. It was day 2, and my Super boss called me to his office. It started with normal talks then slowly it turned to taunts, indirect references to how bad of a manager I am, not directly but by giving someone else's instances. etc etc and I am not sure about how I should react to this. Right now I'm even more demotivated and upset and moreover afraid that this might be a cue or a signal or maybe a warning that I can be fired. I can't share this with anyone else. I have potential in me but instead of helping me improve, this approach was taken. I used to be great, now I'm not. I want to be that girl again but I just don't have the mind to. 

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