I am weird. I can’t fit in informal groups. I have no problem coordinating with a team in a formal setting, but the moment it turns informal, i start having problems.
I shared this issue with a friend of mine, and she and others are trying so hard to help me but i can’t, i just can’t, i am disappointing them. The reason being that i get this feeling that why am i here, what would change if i am not a part of thus friend group, what am i contributing, and most of the times i get to the conclusion that i am useless in this group, and i ultimately walk away.
First off you need to know your worth you belong in your group just as much as anyone else. Even if you feel you aren’t contributing, or that you don’t belong, you do. And those friends who are trying to help you believe you do too.