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Anonymous

I am very stressed out and feeling so stupid.
The thing is I met this guy, itā€™s been 5 months.
He says he likes me alot and Iā€™m the person he always wanted to be with.
But few days back he told he still have feelings for his best friend to whom he proposed 2years back and she is said no, since then they are friends only. He is now confused.
Now he is thinking that if he tells her he might hurt her feeling as he is the only guy friend she haveā€¦

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Itā€™s better to stay away from a person who is still and doesnā€™t want make any decisions

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He asked me for some time to clear out thinks with his best friend. And I said yes

shaadx @shaad02

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Itā€™s been 2years with his bestfriend but he hasnā€™t moved on from it ā€¦
Are you sure that heā€™ll make it clear This time??

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Anonymous
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No no, 2 years back he proposed her and she said no. But he still have feelings for her. Nothing physical or something happened between them and they are friends only.

shaadx @shaad02

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Okay
Give him sometime to think what he actually wants
Let him go according his decision

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I think in this case he definitely has to make up his mind. Sorry to give you this, but it feels like youā€™re a backup. I think itā€™s time to give him some space to let him think about whether he wants you or not. Same for you. Do you want to be with a guy whoā€™s not going for you 100%?

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Anonymous
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Yes I have given him some time and space, I think he is all tensed up with all this confusion too. Backup tabb hota na jab vo uske sath relationship mai hota, uski best friend ke liye bas thodi feelings hai.
I think vo toh chali jayegi.
He told me ki he doesnā€™t think me as an option at all.

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