I am very frustrated today. My new roommate is such a toxic person. It’s disturbing me a lot. She is a complaint box, this is that or that is that. Whatever but Idk what problem she have with me. She is a talkative person, and needs to talk someone always and I am a silent person. Basically I am already struggling with my depression and somehow trying to survive etc, so I avoid Talking. In all of that this new problem.
So, for a pity issue, she is thinking of me as the evil. Which I have no idea about, about her stuff got spilled out, she thinks I did it. And dude, we are IT working professionals, how sick someone can think like this. I told her may have happened by your mistake or just have happened, somehow as it’s a packet. But dude what a sick thinking and she is gonna ruin mey image in front of everyone. I have big things to deal with my life and literally no energy for even having such a thought. I was surprised. What is she saying. I have never lived alone outside, and such people making my life more shitty. I am already sick of cough and cold, trying to work somehow, but she is such a blamer it blew my mind.
just tell her this all to her in a polite way and if things didn’t work than change the room…
Yeah I told her. But she is not ready to understand you know. :/
than can you do anything else like can you change your room or room mate…
Ig that’s the last option, thanks!
Ruhaa @x_rue_x
Try telling her how you feel, bluntly. She’s your roommate but you deserve peace and space too. If it’s affecting your mental health address it immediately.
Yes I did, but she have no affect. Like she made her mindset :/
Have you considered complaining or trying to get different rooms if she’s unbearable?
I haven’t done that yet. I feel so pity of even talking about this. Idk even if they will believe me or not. Should I?
Yes, you should because you don’t deserve that treatment. Ask for what you need.
Thanks ❤️
Hiii
Yes?
