I am very angry at the dating scene these days. Nowadays, all people want is casual relationship or hookups and i feel like i am stuck in wrong generation. All there is left is lust.. nobody wants to plan things. Sabko instant noodles chahiye. Sometimes I feel i will die single.

Naked Soul

I resonate with you.
I have been looking out for a relationship that would start from friendship and nurture into love eventually. But all hopes in vain.😶

Yes, I don’t know where to meet like minded people 

Finally someone that has some solid thoughts on relationships 

Yhi hal h m bhi single h mru ga bhri jwani m

3am Thoughts

I am 21 and i have never been in a relationship be it casual or serious. I am too confused sometimes i am like i am happy being alone but sometimes I feel like it'll be great to hold hands with someone, dance with someone, but again what if it doesn't work out. What if it gets toxic ? Is it better to be single 🤔?  There were a few girls who found me cute and wanted to talk but i walked away like i am bad at social interactions and i always have negative thoughts since I have seen so many friends of mine going through breakup 💔 i am like what if it doesn't work out. Shall I date or just get a job live in an apartment and just get dogs. 

Confusion

Why are some people so damn unlucky in their love life. People are marrying their high school sweetheart. Someone found love during their college time. And here I am feeling like why am I so unlucky when it comes to love. Why did I not meet someone during my school life? Why did I choose the wrong guy to fall in love with during my college who broke my heart? Mujhe bhi chahiye thi aisi out of fairy tale type love story.

Love

Anyone else who is 21 and above, is single, and has a fear of ending up alone? 😅🤚

Everyone my age either have successfull career or are getting married (also both).I am here with no proper relationship since almost 3years. Also don't want to settle on with someone I don't love or like. I don't want to end up alone or be financially dependent on someone.i have to make it anyhow 

Life

It's feels so weird when you're 30 have a stable career & have never been with someone at any point in your life. The fact that no one ever was interested in you, makes the self confidence hit rock bottom. It's like you don't want to go out cause it'll only make you feel lonlier and you just bury yourself in a cocoon hiding your feeling from everyone.

Lonely

I think a person with a pure heart is always  unlucky in relationship  🤔

Loss

To be straightforward... I want someone i can call mine... Lean on... be with... After my last breakup 4 years ago... I never dated anyone... I am almost forgetting what being in love feells like... I also feel like i am almost wasting my youth years sittting at home alone doing nothing fun in my life being almost 21 now... And use to be a 15 year old who wanted to try each and everything and to have all the fun i could when i turn 18 and life afterwards... But nothing's going according to plan... 

Also going on the dating apps feels so desperate... Which i am not maybe.. Or maybe i am... But still don't wanna try Dating apps and force myself to be with someone... As i am a person who always expect things more naturally... Which now i think is not gonna happen for me in this life time😩... 
What should i do? 

Adulting

I'm 25. Single.

A friend recently told me to think about dating someone.

As everyone, I too desire to be with someone who treats me nice and romantic.

But whenever I think about it, I feel like I'm too young. I feel like a child, immature. I don't feel adult enough to go on a search for a romantic partner.

Is this normal? Any guys or girls related to me?

I don't think I'm asexual or anything. I don't really stare at girls and fantasize. Even friends treat me like I'm a child. I don't really have a solid crush on anyone. No girl ever takes me seriously. No one ever flirted with me. Even when i meet someone new n single, i don't even think of a possibility of me being with them and i don't even try. But i try to be as nice to people as possible.





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