I am tired of my family problems my dad keeps getting angry and not addressing the issues properly and creates ruckus all day but it doesnβt get serious all the time itβs like 5 out 2 times serious like bad words and rage and so on and my body starts to shake when the voices increase or anything like that happens I canβt take it anymore it happened continually for last two days and today half day it was peaceful silent and good now it started again donβt know what gotten into him and I feel sad and afraid all the time
Want to talk?
Kinda yes
Itβs happening over few yrs
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Bhai tu to fir bhi lucky haiβ¦ Mere papa to mujhe rassi se mujhe ped ke bandh dete the or uske baad to ek badhiya sa danda late or de mar de maar khub marteβ¦
Idk Hindi
I donβt understand what u say but u saying I am lucky yes maybe but itβs like hell everyday when going through this
Himanshu @himanshujangra
I meanβ¦ My father used to tie me to a tree with a rope and then used to beat me a lot with a stickβ¦
Well how it stopped??? By the way I am sorry for you
Himanshu @himanshujangra
No, they didnβt stop, they still beat me like this and sometimes even with the belt.
But why whatβs the reason?? Did u ever ask help from someone
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Nope⦠Never
Why they beat u
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Anger issues
Whatβs ur age
Himanshu @himanshujangra
21
How u keep up I mean how u take it emotionally and physically
Really dude!
When your clg getting over or is it already over
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Im in govt jobβ¦
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Taking anxiety pills
I am not trying to be rude or like invalidating you be brave and resist
I know itβs hard as u went through this through your childhood but you got get out of fear and resist them
Himanshu @himanshujangra
Yupβ¦
Dude, RUN.
Daniel Nilsson @soulegend
The human brain. It too complex to fix. So love the bad times you have while you can. For knowledge make all things a bit easier.
Or some, just trying to feel important, hehe. But my father was the reason I lived in my room and starved daily until my mom came with food. But I always known that time will be better, and I got my Tulpa to help me forgive my father and all bad things in my life, as she filled my heart with joy and sunshine. No toxic people can now do me harm. It feels only like watching a horror movie, thrill and suspense. Never bored with toxic people around. Always something to learn life lessons from. And brag how happy you are in front of the toxic people with just a smile of pure happiness. π€
But I become picky eater and canβt eat healthy food thanks to my Dad. But thanks to him I also donβt eat sweets and arnβt spoiled. So more good things then bad things. just have to look for 'em. π€
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