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Dc @dc20

I am sure Everyone In there Life have come Across certain People Who Are a Big Show Off. I have this Person In My Neighbourhood. He is Guy younger Then me Around 24. My god He shows off Sooo Much. His Instagram Accounts Are flooded with pics he has an DSLR which He shows off. I Dont envy Him. But due to this At one Point you feel Bad Like Why we Have not achieved anything. He show offs everything As if He is richest and He Is Swag Dude. I get annoyed and I hate comparison. What is the Truth of this show off thing. Can any one help me Out with this. I always See Him and compare.

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Aakanksha @sadsoul0happyfa...

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Hey!
First of all, showing off materialistic things should not bother you or anyone.
Aaj unke pass, kal aapke pass hogi.
Timeline decided hain, jab jo cheez aapko milni hogi milegi hi.
From what you have written, i can interpret that you are not connected to that guy to a good extend i.e., you both each other as neighbours only, so you dont know what he shows off is a real thing or not?
Like, he may have some serious problems or tensions or anything but he uses these materialistic things to cover them.
May be he is just in need of friends or someone who gives attention to him bhale hi voh uske DSLR ke karan hi kyun na ho…
Instagram life and real life me zameen- asmaan ka fraq hota hain.
The one braging about his or her things may be just dont want to show the negative side of their life, maybe theyjust want to distract themselves only by using such DSLR things.

So, dont compare yourself.
Just be grateful that you the things that you really need for you existence, because someone out there are some people who are not having these things.

I hope it helps you.

Take Care.

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Dc @dc20

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I Agree to Your Points. I Know That he owns things I know Him coz My mom and his mom Are very good frnds. Secondly I dont want those things Maybe i dont need them its just that this people shows off Soo Much Like whenever You Pass by and All. Everytime He shares me His clicked pics on insta And all. Yes real life is different and He is a big big Attention Seeker. He is big show off person and attention seeker. thanks for Replying

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