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I am someone who takes a lot of time trusting people and can’t really open up. I became friends with this guy say A. I somehow felt comfortable and started trusting him a lot before than I usually trust people. I told him a lot of things about me like a lot. I showed him my vulnerable side which I haven’t really shown anyone before him. He didn’t really share anything which was fine I guess maybe he took time because. He told me about one of his friends let’s say B who liked me so me and B start talking. I still used to tell A everything. I didn’t really want anyone in our schools to know about me and B talking as I don’t like to advertise my personal business. I told A not to tell anyone but I got to know that he has told one of his friend who told one of her friend and many others. I was fine with this and this wasn’t a big deal so I just let it go. Then one day I told him about how I wasn’t sure about my feelings for B and I wanted to take time and not commit and told him to not tell anyone especially B as I wanted to talk to him myself which I did. But then after 2 days I got to know through B that one of his friends say C asked him about this( I wasn’t sure and he was which made it seem like that he was obsessed and I was just leading him on). Then B told me that his friend C has a friend through whom she got to know who is friends with A so the only way that vould have gone was that A told someone. It was the second time. It wasn’t that big of a deal but still I felt like if he could tell this then he may have told all of my personal things to others. We haven’t talked now since a month without any reason. He didn’t message and I felt like I was being a annoying if I messaged coz he clearly didn’t want to talk. It’s just that for some time he really made me feel that I had somebody and then just went away just like that

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Arni <3 @pastel_euphoria

Hearing all about this, maybe you should have an open hearted and honest conversation with A, tell him what you feel regarding what happened, maybe that way he will get to know what you’re thinking. It’s okay if you don’t wish to talk to him about it tho, I just hope things turn out in your favour. It definitely feels off when someone we trust acts unexpected, but trust me, you’ll find better people. People who are willing to listen to you and respect your privacy. Sending you support!~ 🫂💕

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I want to talk to him. I believe in communicating then and there but B told me that he was asked not to tell that to anyone and I don’t wanna break his trust

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Arni <3 @pastel_euphoria

Ohhh I see, sounds tough :(

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