I am so sick of it all. I’m sick of my friends lying and going behind my back. my best friend, which I’ve been trying to get to join me in cheerleading has in fact taken it up… at my dance school… without telling me… I had to find out from Facebook. I’m sick of this! She knows how important this is to me. This was her fourth chance or something by now. I don’t have that many people and don’t want to let go, but she feels so toxic sometimes. Always telling me how I should act but being a hypocrite starving herself too. She goes out to parties with alcohol and stuff which is something I have always wanted but doesn’t invite me even though she can. I had to find that one out on through the grapevine too. What do I do? My life is collapsing around me because I’m still suicidal but I can’t do a damn thing because my family is hurting enough we literally just found out my dad has cancer. What the hell am I supposed to do? I’ll take any advice, even just a smiley face emoji would help. Thanks whoever reads this. You mean a lot to me.
niti agti @aragni
hi there,
is she really ur best friend? i dont believe so dear. i m sorry to say that.
u know, its better being with less people around you then to have toxic ones. because as u say ur family is also going through crisis, these people will be nowhere when u will need them. better accept it early. u are a bright and courageous person. dont let this affect u. u have a whole lot of fights ahead of you. be strong. we are here for you. everything will be fine. trust urself and ur family is there for you. u will get more finer people with time. be kind to urself.
and lastly, u can always talk here.
Thanks, I think I needed to hear that. I’m not sure I can leave her, but I’ll try to detach myself a little. I just can’t handle more pain. Thank you again for your kind words :) really, thank you
Puh.tato @kumkum
A friend is someone who’ll stay by your side whatever happens. who’ll wipe your tears, laugh with you until you both can’t take it anymore, knows you need a hug just by looking at you, bring you ice cream when you’re feeling down and darling the girl you mentioned above is not your friend. At some point in your life you will find someone who needs you as much you need them. you just have to have some patience and hope. I am sorry to hear about your dad. I know Its not easy to deal with all of this but you gotta be strong. You are precious in many ways just be kind and life will be kind to you. If you need someone to talk to, you can hit me up.
Keep smiling and I’m sure you’ll find your happiness
my problem is that she holds me when I cry too. It’s all so confusing. I do have someone I need who needs me just as much, she’s my twin sister. I’m really grateful for her everyday (even when she pisses me off). I know I have to keep going. I’ve gotten good at forcing myself through shit over the last 6 ish years. I guess I just need to do it again :) Thank you for helping me out, it means a lot to me. I feel a lot better and less alone, thank you for that. I’ll keep smiling if you will 😃
Puh.tato @kumkum
I think you need to confront her and see what she says, I happy that you have your sister. you find the light by going through the darkness and I see that you’re already very strong, kudos to you. And I’ve learned over years to find happiness in everything, I hope you do too. If you need to talk, just know that I’m more than happy to make a friend.
(ps: my brothers piss me off too to no ends but I love them to death)
Just leave her. I know it sounds crazy but trust me she is no good to you. She is only making you feel worse about yourself. And about back-bitching, it’s something that everyone does, but if your closest friends are doing this then leave them too. You are supposed to be happy, you deserve the world and not this toxicity.
Just take a break. Do something that you love.
Spend time with your family, talk to them, share your feelings with them.
Don’t try to do something that will ruin your life. PLEASE
Don’t worry, you’re not alone.
Everyone is with you.
I am with you.
Love you
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
No she is definitely not ur friend.U better be alone than being with her.Maybe she cares but not enough to be a good friend.And yeah u don’t have die for some self-centered so called friend.I think she uses u for her sheer comfort.
