i am so bad at comforting people, i wish i wasn’t. i just don’t know what to do. i feel bad seeing someone sad but i can’t bring myself to hug them or be like super nice. then it makes it seem like i’m mean but i’m not i just can’t do it.
Its totally fine …and understandable…dont blame yourself for it…if you cant comfort them just sit and be there for them by their side… it helps a lot to and give a glass of water maybe
Zak Puckett @ztothephour
Quiet ears are usually whats sought. Just sit by them, theyll lean in or not. If words dont come to you, dont find any. Im one of those that hearing “its gonna be okay” can set me off. Not saying its acceptable. But emotions be like that