I am so afraid of never finding love again. I’ve had only three long-term relationships, and I was in love each time. Unfortunately, the relationships didn’t. One ended in my getting cheated on; the other ended in because I fell out of love with her, and the last one ended because she fell out of love with me. I am getting older and have always dreamed of having a family with the woman I love. I wanted to tackle the world with her. Now all of this seems like an impossibility. I am introverted and no longer have a friend group who can go out. I have no idea where I will find my person or if they even exist. What I the point in life if I am to live it in solitude.
Shakshayy @sakshayy1
You’ll fall in love again and all of this will just be a distant memory. You’ll see.
How old are you?
30
Not too old to find love still! My mother is in her late 40s and found love 2 years ago, don’t give up!
Wow. That’s so lovely to read. Good stuff.
I’m 23 and I’ve never even known what love is, I dont even had any girlfriend ever, and I don’t even have any hope of that :)
You will. Just start working towards it. Use dating apps. Join a gym / dance class / language class etc. Use social media to find interesting people. Find your college alumni girls / colleagues etc as people out. Give it a shot.
Tried most them, no result , and tbh now I’m tired and this whole process demands a lot of energy and time to reach out, get to know each other and after investing so much of time and energy only to get ghosted at the end. I don’t know man I guess I’m not made for this…
Love is a roller coaster. Goes up down slow fast. You don’t jump.off it when you go slow and down. Move on… Love will find you. Past is past it’s gone. Chin up. Go find new avenues. Join a gym / dance class / language class etc. You will meet lots of women. Start dating again. It is not the end of the world. Love is just around the corner. You just have to make it to the curb. Have faith.
