I am really depressed. I broke up after 4 years of relationship. I thought she would be there for my life. I did not give her proper attention and she gave up on me. I am totally changed.  I want to give our relationship another try and show how much she means to me. I love her and can't loose her. But she is not agreeing to it and she has given up. I am depressed and I don't know what to do

Have you been able to prove to her that you've changed? Because if she knows maybe she'll give it another try. Although she could just be looking for someone else, in which case, maybe you aren't meant to be. It'll hurt for a while, but one day you will heal <3

Breakup

Few months ago. I had a breakup with my girlfriend. After that many things happened. Now after 3 months she texted me and started talking to me as she was before. But 3 5 days back she again crashed with her ex boyfriend after that i can she the change in her. Some of my friends told me that she is again dating him.
Second thing is after 3 4 days her birthday is coming so all of my friends are mutal too her so even i am invited so i have planned a big suprise but im confussed that should i go ahead im not expecting anything just the thing i have planned this thing way back before breakup. 
So should i go ahead or not? I love her now also but im not expecting anything because i know where it will end.

Hello my name is Alex. I'm here to talk about a break up I had before 3 days and I need some solutions. I was missing from my town for 4 years when I came back I saw a girl that i liked here past then and brought me back for  some feelings. I texted here and she responded so we start dating. Everything was Okey that girl was I'm love for me for 6 Years even thought we never even kissed in the past. She had 2 years relationship with a guy but never finished I mean had sex. I was her first guy she was hard in love with me. We dated for 6 weeks and I cheated on her. The same moment I did that I regret it and started chasing her for 3 weeks I did crazy stuff sending her flowers to her job to her place calling her searching her etc... she forgave me and we gave a new start before 2 weeks. She was Okey I mean she even told me that she love me did many stuff like I did for her. But since Monday she changed I mean she was very cold we talked and she said she feels like she is cold doesn't know what she want . She asked 5 days not to talk to see if she has feelings about me because she was feeling that I pressure her. We broke up and she told me she loves me but wanna move on. I know she is insecure about her self I know she loves me I wanna ask the girls here what I can do any tips like give her time tect her like friend in some time so I get her back


After taking a six months break from everyone, ive started to feel good, her memories are fading away and i think i don't need anyone anymore. I don't wanna impress anyone, don't want anyone to understand me or sympathise with me. It's just now i enjoy my own company bc most of the people out there are fake. Still miss her. Yeah she wasted so much time of mine but i don't regret falling for her, never will.

Relationships

So I've been dating this girl for like 8 months, things have been going okay. We dated back in high school for a short bit she was kinda my first serious relationship. What ended it back then was she was a bit of a downer, a little black rain cloud. There was always something going on to upset her, like something not going her way. She also would get upset when I'd have to go to work which is sweet but when you have to call in every other day because someone cant spend the day without you it gets kinda annoying, then it kinda felt like she didn't care if I was there or not. She went to prom with another guy because I couldn't due to some trouble I got into, then me and my mom got Into a fight and I call her to talk about what happened but she didn't seem to care so I told her a few days later that I wanted to break up, she wanted me to come over and talk about it which we did and she seemed okay with it she just wanted to have sex one more time. Which really made feel like she could care less. So we split up and didn't see each other till a few years ago which has been about 14 years since we dated. She left her husband because he wasn't giving her any attention and I guess he was a dick sometimes. But it bothers me how she went about it, she left him a note saying she had feelings for me and I'm sure alot more stuff. But he loaded he kids up and left to come stay with me which at the time I was staying with a friend of mine in a two bedroom house with him his wife and their two kids. Now with 10 people in one house when I had my kids over as well we was pretty crammed. Not sure how someone can do that and think it's a problem, but we all made it work for a few months. Her dad had past away last year and she has inherited his house which is a 1 1/2 bedrooms and is full of stuff. We've been slowly working on it for about 5 months now and haven't make much headway. Which bugs me because my kids still have to sleep on the floor, well a pallet when they come over because there's no room for a spare bed. Also her kids run over her, yell and scream all the time and are constantly making messes. Not sure how much I can stand, it doesn't help that she hasn't changed much still a downer, there's always something wrong. She always sick or dont feel good or things are overwhelming. Not sure if I should stick around to see if things will work out a just say we tryed

Stress

Guys... Help me... 
There's a girl with me... From last 8 months we r doing the same job... She always utter the line "I love you" Just like we r in a relationship.. Nd tends to be my girlfriend..like being Textfully clingy..like jealous a bit when I talk about other girls...But when I seriously ask about it.. She says she is not sure now.. That she loves me or not....Its really confusing... I m investing a lot of time on her... M I wasting my time?? 
what should I do?? 


Confusion

So im in college and have never had a relationship. I had my first date 3 months ago and got to cuddle for the first time ever. After 4 weeks apart for winter break she broke it off because I was being too pushy wanting a second date. I thought I was over it but I seen her today and talked with her. Iv learned a lot in the past 2 months but she won't hear me out. She says shes talking with someone else now. It bothers me because I feel like it was all my fault when it ended because i didnt know what I was supposed to be doing. Will this feeling go away if I ever find someone else?

Frustration

I’m sad. There’s this girl who I love, our 3 year anniversary was in November. Everything felt like it was so good in our relationship. And for 2 years it was so perfect. Some friends even said like a fairytale. She is a lot older then me, and had been married in the past. She had been acting off, almost like she was trying to find things to argue about. And we never used to really argue. But she had been nit picking at little things she’s never cared about before. Etc. I felt something was up so I had went through her phone. Only to see there was a text to her ex wife, “you should have let me rub you down.” It’s been 2 weeks since I saw that and I have just grown so much sadder. I was diagnosed with MDD and BPD and have been trying to manage it, with tips I received from tons of counseling. But god it’s just so hard now. She proposed to me a couple of days after and I said yes. I just hate this because I love her so much, and we have been talking about getting married for a while. And this would be my first time getting married, so why not with someone I’m absolutely in love with? But now I just can’t help but be sad. We talked about it since then and she said she was just joking and how it was a joke. But you don’t joke like that with your ex! You don’t, it’s practically a universal rule. And I told her I couldn’t trust her anymore, especially in talking with her. and she said “I know but ever since We got engaged I haven’t.” Like okay so you act like we weren’t together a whole 2 years before that. And we were friends before we even got together. So I’m just feeling incredibly betrayed right about now. And kicking myself why I even said yes. Even more so, because why did she wait till now to even propose??? Because she just didn’t want to lose me and this is her last Hail Mary? Am I just overreacting? I don’t even know at this point and it’s giving me a headache. My heart is just hurting wondering I deserved it. Because to me, it sounds like she cheated with her ex wife. And all of this just has me crying my eyes out tonight. 🤧😢

My girlfriend recently broke up with me with the biggest reason being that we’re going to go off to college and start a new chapter in our life, but we’re ending it on a weird note of being friends and being optimistic that we will be able to reconnect after college and have a good life together. I don’t know how I feel about this and I’m heartbroken, I wish we could still be together. What are some other people’s opinions?

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