I am really depressed. I broke up after 4 years of relationship. I thought she would be there for my life. I did not give her proper attention and she gave up on me. I am totally changed.  I want to give our relationship another try and show how much she means to me. I love her and can't loose her. But she is not agreeing to it and she has given up. I am depressed and I don't know what to do

Have you been able to prove to her that you've changed? Because if she knows maybe she'll give it another try. Although she could just be looking for someone else, in which case, maybe you aren't meant to be. It'll hurt for a while, but one day you will heal <3

Breakup

My girlfriend of over 1-year just broke up with me and I feel so sad. I feel alone

My girlfriend broke up with me saying  she needs space after 7 years of relationship . This happened few months ago.
This broke me in and out 💔and now I'm getting quite normal from this situation.
Sometimes i feel like to make her regret .
I wanted to do this only because she hurt me too bad that time.

Comment your thoughts on this buddies..



my girlfriend wants to break up and she’s the one thing that i want.
she’s my everything and she wants to leave.
some stuff happened in her personal life (not related to me) and she wanted to take a break from us to sort herself out.
she came back hinting multiple times she wants to be just friends.
i put my everything into her, and now whenever i try to mention us, she gets angry at me.
we were so close, i didn’t think anything could pull us apart - i don’t know how she could just lose feelings like that.
the only thing i want in the whole world doesn’t want me.
i don’t know what to do

Love

Now I'm in a relationship but I'm not happy with it because she never ask  me to meet or spend time together not talk to much yes we both are working in same city but still can't meet or can't go for a date  whenever I ask for go out she always have other plans we barely talk for 1 hour in a day I'm giving her a space but still I want to be with her we known to each other for like 5 years and now we in relationship I'm confused I don't know if she intrest in me or not I don't want to end this relationship 

Anxiety

I just wanted to get this off my chest.

The year was 2015. I was in high school, and there was this girl that I knew that had a crush on me, because we kinda used to talk and we had friends in common. I kinda neglected her, but not in a rude way, I just didn’t want anything at the time (or I really wasn’t paying much attention). In our school,  we had this thing on Valentine’s Day where people could send anonymous messages in a heart-shaped piece of paper. I received a letter from this girl (even though it was anonymous, I knew it was hers), and after that my vision of her began to change. I started seeing her differently, as I began to like her more and more and more... We ended up dating for a while, and it was amazing, but because we were in high school and kinda nervous around each other, we managed to break up and slowly grow apart (I don’t remember exactly how that happened). After that, it was pretty much downhill, as the years started to go by, she moved to another school, and later to another state. 
This brings me to the end of the year 2020, in the midst of the pandemic. I was reorganising my room, throwing some old boxes out and cleaning things, when I found that heart-shaped piece of paper that I got from her years before. As I read what was inside, a strange feeling was taking over my body. That type of feeling where a whole movie goes through your mind, of all things that happened before/could’ve happened if things had been different. I remembered when we were dating, holding her hand, texting her at night… I became obsessed with this idea that she was the one that got away, and i had to do something about it. I still had her Instagram, so I texted her and sent a picture of the heart-shaped piece of paper, saying something like “I still have this… still think of you”. After that, she appeared to be fond of me contacting her that way after a long time, and we started texting each other like every day. Things were going great, until the day she came to me with the question i was fearing the most “hey, I wanted to ask you… what did you mean when you sent me that picture? Why did you do that?”. I didn’t know what to answer because I myself didn’t really know why I did that, since I knew she wasn’t living elsewhere… but I came clean, saying that I really though we could be together and I really missed her. Her response wasn’t much warm, she basically said she missed me too but didn’t want anything, and that “sometimes it takes a pandemic to do some things”  probably referring to me saying all that stuff. (Continues in the comment section)

Relationships

Had a breakup few months ago. Memories still haunts me like crazy. It's really hard to always control myself from texting her.
I know it's sily to have such things at age 30.. never thought i would have to face my lowest again

I feel liek me and my gf are falling apart, we met at school then went on from there. She had to move so me and her have different time zones now. Its hard because she is 5 hours behind me and i normally stay up to 12 - 1 am just to talk to her. I love her, but the time zone isnt working. IM tired and cant keep staying up for her. Its selfish but ive been doing this for MONTHS now. Today i came out to her about this situation. I told her about how i cant with the time zone and shit and she agreed. We are friends with benefits now. I told her im going to take a break. Should I stay with her or break up with her.

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I am finding it so hard to get a girlfriend lol 💔

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