I am not feeling well... I stuck on one boy and its may be one sided from my side... and I really want to move on from him.. but I am unable to do that... I tried lot of times but I failed...Even I talk but he is in casual dating.... I want good and healthy relationship and I m sure that I can be good partner but Don't understand what to do.. Anyone can help me on this..

JEEVAN ACHARYA

Yes he said it..that he doesn't want relationship.. but he wants to connect with me

I talked with him.. I like him...but I know he doesn't.. thats why I wanna get over from him.. but how I m not getting..

Ohk it happens don't worry it will be fine soon things are getting normal with time 

I just you should focus on your instead of trying to move on and make friends & get involve in some activities.

Get to know yourself better . Shower yourself with love . It will get better 😉

Confusion

Hey guys, 
*Storytime* 
I was in a relationship for 1.5 years and then two months ago we broke up because he said he wanted to "find himself". 
I was shattered but it only took me 2 months to pick up myself and move. After I broke up with that guy, I started talking to a lot of guys just to distract myself. 
All of the talking was casual and nothing more, at all. 
Until I started talking to this guy and I fell for him. 
I was extremely happy and my friends were happy too that I had someone good in my life but I started to think "what if I moved on too soon?". I deeply loved my ex, today too he'll always a soft corner but I was ready to throw that in my past and leave it there. 
The new guy was AMAZING, can emphasise the amazing. He's a complete nerd, and I never though nerds would be my type but he sure is. He's the type of person who can make you feel as if everything will work out. I realllyyyyyy like him and obviously, I'd want to date him or take things to the next level but I can't. He's charming in ways I can't even describe. My friends said this "the honeymoon phase" but honestly I haven't looked at a guy more objectively than this. 
Unfortunately, we'll have to part ways soon because we'll be going to different countries soon and we don't want to do long distance.

Conclusion: Everything taught me that there are "good" guys who're there out somewhere, we just need to look for them and cautiously watch out for the toxic guys. 
And even though things won't have an ending that I want, I will be grateful for having someone like him in my life who taught me that with bad things, good things do come. 

Thank you for reading. 
Love y'all 💗💗💗💗

Relationships

I used to like a guy back in scul but he wasn't ready at that time.  Then afterwards he was ready but didn't tell but used to chat once a month then after that when I asked him . He said he has different priorities right now n doesn't want that thing . Then I told him alot of things but apologized after 2 years n now we're friends but my feelings came back n I told him I've been liking him since 9 years.  He's shocked . He doesn't even know me much . We were in same standard for once.  What he wants , he's not clear with it.  I don't know what to do.  Plus he's into studies n all v much .

Boyfriend

So I have this problem that whenever I am in a relationship it only works for a month I feel like I am fully into that guy but I just feel afraid that they will leave me first or that person feels like I am not interested in him or in the relationship because of my poor efforts. I do try to put efforts but in the end they seem worthless and it ends up in break up. P.S. I have a really strict family so I actually never went out on a date and I couldn't call much I can't even call my friends much because sometimes they listen to my conversation or ask me what I am talking about. So I decided to be in a relationship when I am in college but no change I recently broke up with my bf because he thought that I never cared much about him and his efforts and I feel like he thinks that they are all excuses. 

Oky after some days i m dealing with depression my behavior totally change nd I think I should talk my boyfriend what I feel nd I m not feel well nd I tried to explain him directly indirectly nd he act like oky he don't even ask me hows I m feeling now how I deal with it we just arguing with each other I really feel fuckin bad   nd I think he trying force him self to love me and I said him clearly don't do this pls be honest nd he was like I just love you nd I can't feel it honestly 🥺 now I m fighting with my self to believe him or not🥺 nd I don't have any friend who give me a better suggest I feel fuckin loneliness

Depression

Well! We all imperfect likes I'm also imperfect in many things but I don't know what my bf expect from me yes I have anger issue and many others . I have a bf who is focused on his life he works hard day and night for us he loves me too but there's always something which brings us into conflict his idea of love and mine varies our way of thinking also varies one day he said to me that he is not happy with me and this relationship because we used to fight a lot because of our idea of life I'm overthinker and I have anxiety problems too and from that day I changed my habits because I too thought that this habit will hamper me if there's something wrong with me I try to change it but when I tell him to change his habits he never does he keeps on lying saying' I'm working on it ' .He is too busy that sometimes there are days when he doesn't even call me or send me GM &GN texts sometimes it happens that I can't even get to see him for week I tried to understand his professional life but sometimes it gets so hard for me and I control my feelings I told him to manage some time for us the day when I say to him he does what I say and from next day it happens the same. It's really getting hard for me I have to cry and beg him for his time and everyone wants there bf to look presentable and handsome he  promised me that he will inculcate his grooming habits it's been 3 years that his habit has not been upgraded he wears the same cloths for months it's not that he can't afford whenever I tell him to change he makes an excuse and I'm literally tired and I gave up on his habit he says that he has not time to buy a new clothes for him and when I say that I'll buy it for you just manage your time . My peer friends started asking me about his clothes and I felt quite embarass and when I told him we ended up quarreling and that day he he spoked so mannerlessly with me he was so rude and mean to me if I have any bad habits I'm ready to change but when he has got one he is never willing to change for my happiness he just say that I'm working on it . I think the way he speaks to me when he is angry is the freedom I gave it to him

I’ve been in a relationship with this amazing guy since 2016. In 2019 he cheated and kissed one of our mutual friends. It was the breaking point and I broke up with him. We stayed apart for almost an entire year but never stopped loving each other. In 2020 March we talked again and realised that we love each other way too much to let this go so soon. He tried a lot to make things better but there were too many issues going at the back of our heads. Some regarding my trust issues and some regarding the people we saw/talked to in that one year apart from each other. We tried to make it work but we failed again. Now he’s gone to US for his masters but he still wants to get back. I’m left with too many issues in my head. I’m afraid of Being treated in the wrong way, being cheated on again, my feelings being exploited again, my efforts going to waste again. I’m exhausted with living in this paranoia. I don’t know if I should give this another chance or just stay emotionally numb forever. I’m torn between my feelings and my defences for self-protection. What should I do?

My ex is making me regret abt me moving on

3am Thoughts

i had a guy friend we used to talk a lot then gradually we came too close and started sharing our feelings with each other after kuch months i fell in love with him as i never believed in these kind of stuff like love or something but i started having feelings for him , i shared it with him and found ki he also had same feelings but we were not ready to convert things into relationship too fast so we decided to know each other more deeply. Now , everything was going cute... one day we had some misunderstanding between us which was due to a chat with my girl friend so i just cleared it all and he understood what all happened after that the things became normal.
 ab ek din we were on call and he shared with me ki i like my best friend since 2 years and started praising her i was like okay and had feelings ki maybe not more than me hehehe so i didn't comment further. and then i didn't feel the same vibes from him which i used to get from him before i asked many times ki kya hogaya so he says my mood is not high these days so it was completely alright ab the next day he asked for virtual stuff moreover virtual sex i said no its not possible wo sab smjha and then one day he said i won't be able to talk coz i have to focus on my studies etc etc and now i don't want to rise your hopes and i never wanted a relationship i had a covo with my sister she said relationships never work and i might try being like my ex ( his ex ditched him long before) and then he continued ki merese nhi hopaaegaa uske jaise banna neither my ethics point at that way. after saying this i was confused kyunki next to next day he again texted me ki talk to me then we had a talk and then after that idk why he blocked me from everywhere. I M REGRETTING KI WHY DID I SHARE THAT BOND WITH HIM JISSME KABHI TOH DONO TARAF SE SAME EFFORTS THE BUT AFTER THAT ONLY ONE SIDED... I REALLY WAS IN LOVE AND STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM BUT I AM UNABLE TO ACCEPT THAT HE IS GONE, whenever we used to talk i used to ask ki " do you still feel the same as i feel for you and he always said YESS and mene humesha ussee bola ki sab mujhse duur chale gaye .. please tum mat jaanaa me seh nhi paaungi and tab bhi he said ki i will never leave youuu sweetheart" JUST HOPING KI HE WILL MESSAGE ME AGAIN AND THAT TIME I WON'T LET HIM GO. I REALLY DON'T HAVE FRIENDS I WAS INTO HIM FOR SO LONG AND PREVIOUSLY ALSO MY FRIENDS WERE ALWAYS BUSY IN MAKING THERE LOVE LIFE SO I DISTANCED MYSELF FROM THEM. I AM REALLY CONFUSED BARELY INTERESTED IN OTHER STUFFS. (ik this post is quiet long but i poured out my feelings)


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