I am not able to trust my boyfriend because of my past. I love him but when we were best friends he broke my trust. The constant fear that he will cheat on me is there because of my past and his mistake when we were best friends. He keeps assuring me but it is not helping at all. I don’t know what to do. Please help.
Just take your time miss. everyone does stuff in the past that they regret. and now is your duty to have control over your feels for him and help it to not get stronger until you feel like trusting him again. I have no idea what he had done in the past so can’t comment on that, but everyone deserves a second chance. but that doesn’t mean you just give him another chance just like that. if that mistake is worth forgetting then just go ahead.
It was a very minor mistake of his. But because of my past with my ex I am not able to cope up. I really love him a lot. And I am willing to forget things for us. But anxiety attacks keep happening because of my overthinking.
I tried but he has also got pissed now as to how much to assure and all.
