depressed_hang @depressed_...
I am married and after every 2-3 weeks I get urge to have paid sex and spent 5-10k in that.When I try to go away from it in that case I start getting depressed and lot of things happen because of that
If your partner is free minded just have a talk with him and tell this things to him. I am sure he will try to understand you.
depressed_hang @depressed_...
I canβt disclose this to herβ¦else she will take my happiness,which is already taken
Then try to speak with your one of your closed ones.
This weaknesses of yours is going to crumble the structure, a strong one, of marriage.
Donβt be foolish to share it with your partner or anyone.
Have some morals or seek therapy in private but donβt traumatize her. This would is enough of idiots. Sometimes hiding things and coming out of it own your own will save people from Nihilism.
Have some courage to punch yourself to consciousness and think what am i doing and how is that gonna change the status quo.
You are the solution so donβt be the weakling playing victimhood.
Rather than goin out and spend money there, spend the same time with herβ¦ Sheβll be more happy and thus reduce her anger when youβll spend more time with her