I am in love with someone who don’t love me back its killing me deep inside
He talks to me out of concern and am not able to break that bond
We talk everyday but whenever chat the point always gets raised that he won’t love me in my mind and getting disturbed
I want to talk to him at the same time I don’t want to get attached as am getting hurt everytime when I remember he don’t love me.
I need support to leave him… I am not able to put him far either he don’t let me go
What do you suggest ? Shall I raise love or hate
If I raise love I get hurt everyday
If I raise hate I will start hating me for hating someone who love me
Hey thanks a lot and you plz smile and don’t worry for having an imaginary frnd it’s all good👍
Then please don’t worry about an imaginary friend:)
That’s the reason I said it’s not good for long and try to avoid such imagination…I experienced it, imagination is a drug we can’t leave
But we need to stop
See but if you keep imagining a frnd you can’t make that possible right
Instead start searching for a frnd who understands you
😊
I have no idea how but i created my account like 5 mins ago? and now yours is my first post and This is thr EXACT SAME SITUATION that I’m in!!
Okay…I think we can help each other… what can be your advice to me?
I likes him alot…maybe love…idk… have confessed…answer was no but i decided to let our thing just flow…thought that everything will automatically will be in it’s right places…but naah!
now he is not talking to me like he used to to do before…Also, I fear of losing him…
what should i do? what can i do?
And I think you should tell him about your feelings…just tell him whatever is going on in your mind.
Same I just created my account …what a coincidence and yeah listen we both are in same situation fear of losing as well as fear of breaking our own heart
yea
Most of my frnds suggest me to raise hatered instead of breaking heart everyday and then there comes the day when we feel happy about our decision
How do you know that he don’t love u?
I proposed him and he said he don’t love me and asked me to wait untill the time arrives
dude…Well I know its tough…coz As i said we are in the same situation…but I believe “the right ones will stay no matter what, and the wrong ones will leave no matter how hard you try to make everything works out”
So…just be with him now… he’s asking for time…maybe even he don’t know whether he loves u or not…if you’re hurt…tell him…if he cares…then you both will figure out what’s to be done…but if he ignores that u r hurt…then leave him immediately and don’t u dare to shed tears for him…as he doesn’t deserves u…
Yeah thanks:) wbu ? Struggling in the same way?
Mine is a bit different…he likes me too…we never met each other…started talking on Instagram…but we both have came so far… problem is his answer is NO for any commitment regarding us…so rn… I’m giving him time… let’s see where ours goes…
