I am in college and i have a male friend we share a nice bond but i enjoy his company and he has a group of friends and they eventually became my friends too but i dont like them i dont gel up with them. After college we sometimes hangout but whenever i am with them i just feel like i am wasting my time beacause all they wanna do is some weed and i dont some because of them my 2 3 hours are wasted daily and i feel exausted after that but i am not able to say no to them as they are my best friend friends

That's strange.
You're not obliged to stay with them just for your best friend. Tell  him about this. If he is truly your bestfriend he will understand and if not, he will react. And you may get the answer: whether you're really wasting your time around that guy.

Exhausted

I feel unwanted  I am there for everyone  like I was there when nobody was there listened to your shit now for fun party people  aren't  even  messaging me they called me when they were on their way to club I feel  sad as I mean I consider them as my bestfriends and they don't  even  reply  my texts  for months  I visited their  house on ganpati  though  they didn't  infact  unhone mere invite ka reply  bhi nahi diya tha I don't know  why but now it's enough  they knew  I had my exams  going  on though  they made this plan and said it was all last minute  and called me when they were on the way but idk how to confront  them I think I am not good enough  boring hu unke level ki bahi hu !!!

Frustration

I heard my bf telling that having no long term friends makes me have a red flag in our relationship. I don’t understand that people left me and we had our differences so I have up on friends and I decided to work on myself by myself. How is this wrong?

Boyfriend

I have a problem of overthinking. I have some really good friends who are there for me but then again i am scared that they are anygry with me if they dont return my calls or reply to my texts. I really should learn to chill sometimes. Someone please help me out in this situation.😅

Insecurity

 ofc frnds < colleagues, so one of my frnd went to Goa, she is married n posted a snap with her husband but in that her chest was little visible. The ofc grp made so fun of her, why she showing that, must have worn push bra n all... Yaar they were really close frnds with her.. once she will come back from holidays they will behave normally with her.. but in back they talk shit abt her.. actually abt each n everyone in grp they talk like this when the other person is not there... I prefer to stay quite around them, I just go to ofc have lunch with them n leave ofc. I talk to them when they are talking abt any normal topic.. usually their topic is related to s*x, or bitching abt anyone or judging others.. I know they judge me as well.. hence I don't get involved with them too much.. it makes me left out in the grp but I am ok with it.. they do but expensive things, go to pubs n smoke n drink which is not my thing. Feels so wrong like sometimes I just want to tell them how wrong they are.. they can't talk shit like that.. but it will not matter to them.. they will not consider me as a part of the grp n leave me alone though they do it often. 
They are good also if anyone in the grp is in trouble they will help out.. but the above mentioned things are making me feel like why they are like this...

Friends

feeling so sad rn. my friends left me out from going to a friend's house together. sure, I saw that they looked like they were waiting for someone which could be me, but they could've asked me via whatsapp right? I'm also kinda mad at myself for showing my displeasure abt it too much, I'm sure I seemed petty and pathetic to them for it.

Discrimination

Somebody just talk to me idont know whats going on why are me friends leaving me 

Anxiety

hey guys i hope everyone's doing well and is safe.

its been a year i've been at home so far. i dont really have any issues with school or anything else but through this year i've noticed all my friends really being distant to me and dont really feel like talking or interacting with me even though ive reached out several times to initiate something. its been a long year and its been kinda bad because i've been adrift from all my friends who all of a sudden don't have any care to respond to me or read my messages and completely blank me like they never liked me in the first place and were just putting up an act in the first place. I know of all of them video calling each other the whole day and for hours and hours in the night and even meeting up with each other, and no matter how much i try they just dont seem to want to do that w me or include me in anything. Im really struggling, i wait all day by my phone to see if anyone even remembers i existed, but to no avail. i really dont know what to do and im just trapped ig because i cant really make meet friends bc of the current situation but also as much and i've done myself screw those guys i still really want to be friends and hang out and have fun like before 

Why do some people showoff ?? Like do they need validation???  

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