I am in a very messed up situation.
So I broke up with my bf few days ago because he physically assaulted me and it was his decision to call it quit. One day he kept texting me and abusing saying the nastiest shit and he told me that he is going to kill himself he literally video call me and showed me that he is injecting an injection and drawing blood. I was scared I called his family but nobody responded. The next morning his maid called me and said that he is not moving at all, I rushed to his place called Abulance took him to hospital, doctor said that everything seems to be fine I also tried many times to contact his family but no one was responding, I paid the bills then we went to his place I tried to talk sense into him he then said that he won’t do anything like this again.
The next day he called me and said that I only have few days to live I am going to end my life. I am shit scared I do not want him to die I told him several times to go to a psychiatrist even the doctors also suggested that he go to psychiatrist but he is not willing to go.
I don’t know what to do if there is any way to get him help please let me know.
⚓ @cap_jacksparrow
Let him be
What if he kill himself?
⚓ @cap_jacksparrow
Talk to his family members and tell them the whole situation and leave him…yaha aapki mental health kharab hojayegi
His mom and dad died during covid, i did tell his aunt and uncle everything but they don’t seem to be that concerned they didn’t even came to the hospital
⚓ @cap_jacksparrow
No one else is there in his relatives?
You did what you felt was right, and I’m sorry that you had to go through it.
If you ever meet him, take his phone and try to talk to his parents and let them know that he is not your responsibility, and these are the kind of things he is doing.
You also need to break off the contact as soon as possible. If he calls, or texts or anything, just cut all of it. Anyway possible that he could try to contact you, break it off.
God bless
His mom and dad died during covid. He is alone
And his friends or other relatives or siblings who can take care of him ?
I told his aunt and uncle.
You did fine, now clear out things to him, and give a clear picture to his friends and like you did to his uncle and aunt and then break off the contact. Don’t pick up the phone, or video calls whatever it is. You have to break the contact at all
Else you will be pulled back into his mess over and over.
You are right, I also don’t want to be in touch with him it’s just I have my feelings attached with him and I don’t want him to die
But, you have been through a lot, and you should make something good out of your life. It was good when it was,now it’s more like a weight which is bringing you down.
You need to make better sense of the realities and what’s good for you
God bless!
