I am going to have sex today, and even though I am going to use protection, I am still shit scared that I ll end up pregnant and I am loosing my mind over it and I donβt think I will be able to concentrate in the moment, has anyone gone through something like this?, Please help, I am literally thinking of the 500 things that could go wrong
No no, dont worry.
Just use protections well.
Think wildlyπ
Go ahead.
All the best!πππ
Woah, you got a whole new different set of problems. Chill and enjoy, people out there hardly can communicate with others and you on the other hand racing your mind with thoughtsβ¦
Potato @whoispotato
Hey dear,
First thing first, this not a thing to over think, instead you should be excited to enjoy the moment you are about to have.
Overthinking may cause alot of things that can ruin this experience for both of you.
It will make you anxious, and you not be able to relax. If you are not relax, you will not be calm & comfortable while whole process. Thus Virginal walls will remain dry. Causing pain & discomfort while intercourse. Thus best solution is to use protection and stop overthinking. Talk to your partner too about this concern. He might surely calm you down.
Most couples (about 84 out of every 100) will get pregnant within a year if they have regular sex and donβt use contraception.
Having regular sex means having sex every 2 to 3 days throughout the month.
But women become less fertile as they get older. One study found that among couples having regular unprotected sex:
aged 19 to 26 β 92% will conceive after 1 year and 98% after 2 years
aged 35 to 39 β 82% will conceive after 1 year and 90% after 2 years
The effect of age on menβs fertility is less clear.
Hope this helps.
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Simran @st1199
Hey!
I encourage you to use the Trigger Warning sign from the next time, while posting stuff about sex as it might not be comfortable for others users to see it. π§‘
Now, protection is the only thing to be saved from being pregnant while saving sex I mean and the pack says 97% effective (what I have heard). So, donβt worry much and with all this anxiousness you wonβt be able to have fun just take it easy. π
naah sis, donβt stress it. it comes naturally when you do it. itβs sometimes less about the lust and more about being closer to your partner. also you can only get pregnant during a slim window of 4-5 days in a month usually between your 11th to 21th day of your mensural cycle. Either ways itβs fine if you use protection and if youβre still think something went wrong like a condom tear or something, have an after pill tomorrow for your mental peace.
Have fun tonight !
Just take care of dates of your cycle donβt try on 12-18 dates from start of your cycle and use protection