I am going through a lot of physical violence by a narcissist husband
But somehow divorce seems to be more difficult for me. Staying alone, carrying the stigma, being alone forever, dealing with lawyers, police, not so understanding society seems more challenging to deal than dealing with this…
Not finding any hope.
S.K... @scatteredsoul
You have to do it for yourself… don’t care about what this society think of you… You have to protect yourself
Gypsy @gypsy
That’s very serious.
In your city there would be some NGO which supports women and offer help in such situations. Do please search online.
You need professional guidance and support.
Are ur parents aware of your situation. How have they reacted.
Not very well… haven’t reached out to NGO yet… no fixed place to stay
Gypsy @gypsy
Search for Goonj on Google. It’s a well reputed NGO across India. They could guide you. There are others also. Run a search on google. Visit giveindia dot org. Snehalaya, Majlis manch, Pyajnya trust. These are some. Talk to them. Take professional guidance.
Shibil @shibilfun
You should opt for divorce. You can find another partner who suits you by your self… Dont even think about the society. Its your life… your one and only life… there won’t be a second chance
I used to say this all the time to my friends… thanks for reminding me
Gypsy @gypsy
Yes. Fair.
dolly @avinaya_6
Can I say u one thing alone life Better than together.marry again no issue
vikram chouhan @vschouhan
What about your family
I can’t imagine what you must be going through.
Often people closest to you, like your family, have the maximum potential to hurt you.
It won’t be easy but if do decide to stand up for yourself, you’ll not only help yourself but also your kids.
Even if you don’t have any right now, would you want such a father to raise them?
Your choice can shorten the war.
I hope your resolve gets stronger.
I hope you find the strength to fight this boldly and emerge stronger than ever.
P.S. Do NOT let society dictate your life .
It does not care for your happiness.
If it did, you wouldn’t be in this situation in the first place.
Thanks for you kind words…
my choice can shorten the war
Each word taken 🙏
Nipun chauhan @dr_sarcasti...
I think divorce for you is a better option if you’re husband isnt understanding , i know it will be hard for your to deal with lawyers and relatives as you are in India but tbh it would be much easier than how your life is rn, bcz you can have a better life ahead
Thank you everyone. I did opted for divorce finally. Going through lowest point. No one is supportive around. Fighting my battle. But all the articles around gave me only one information constantly which I couldn’t ignore- that it’s better to separate that the abuse will get worse
