i am getting more depressed day by day . i thought i have it under control but i feel so empty. i have a wonderful family yet i feel so lonely. i dont have friends because relationships other than my family have always hurt me .but now i feel like maybe i am born to suffer . i hate being lonley yet i always end up alone. i just dont want to feel weak . i dont know what to do.
hey girl let me begin by telling you that you are strong, so strong that you are able to share what you feel. I have been in a similar spot many a times . people have mostly hurt me and in my case my family was no less in making me feel unwanted. over the years i have learnt to enjoy my own company.spend time with youself, treat yourself with good food, music etc. The world out there is ruthless, people will make you feel like you are a burden but trust me you are not. Talk to your family, talk to some who understands you , be it your brother or sister , and to anyone for that matter who you are close to. Tell them how you feel , vent out everything thats on your mind. trust me you will fee good. Talk to me if no one without any fear of judgement. Gift your self some trips . you are not alone in this. we all feel the same way some day or the other. Do whatever makes you happy, do things for yourself . You are beautiful just the way you are.
thank you for your kind words. i don’t know what’s the problem .i was once a fearless outspoken person and suddenly i have become so scared of the world that i have created a bubble around me from where i don’t wanna get out but i am lonely in there . all the insecurities and wrongdoings towards me since my childhood has piled up and made me this weak . the worst is i am aware of the problems yet i am too scared to do something. this thought just kills me every single day. and i am afraid i might lose my family also because of my own self.
Honey, don’t worry I know you deserve all the happiness in this world. the best thing that you can do right now is unravel your self. You should try to do things that make you feel happy and think about the memories that you cherish. I know it’s not easy to cope up with what you are going through but I believe in you. I know you are strong and that you can pull this off. if you need to let out anything and now matter what it is, I am here. You can even text me on my instagram. my handle is @nityaaa_58. I can’t assure you that what you are going through will vanish but I can surely tell you that you won’t be going through this alone. We are with you and you deserve all the happiness. Stay strong.
You are not born to suffer ,you constantly keep building that thought in your head and keep punishing yourself .I understand you not having friends but there is more to life than that
I am sure you have hobbies and things that you love try indulging in that
Why don’t you get a pet if you don’t have one
You can always talk to me ,I am a complete stranger and I have realised that’s what everyone here on the all says but trust me on this ,I am a judge free zone
Heyy!! You said you have a lovely family right ? If they understands you tell them .And if not just try to involve yourself more with them keep yourself busy working or helping others maybe you could spend some time with pets if you have any. Just remember that you are stronger than what you think. Treat yourself, love yourself 😉 🤗 .You got this .
