To tell you honestly he don't deserve you 
When you love someone it doesn't mean that same will get in return
Every individual is different and their thoughts are different 
He left for his good but he might have forgotten that he lost the person who loved him the most forget about him and move on might be you get a very good person then him 

After reading your lines.... my girlfriend  also  said same things to mee..... but  I left her coz she understands  me a lot and I don't  understand  her little bit. I

This exactly what am facing right now...💔 we talk but he treats me according to his mood always 🥺

Allow me to make you smile a little bit

Some Men thinks girls are not that bright but i think they are prestine because they can express their infinite emotion just by adding and subtracting "m" from hmm😇

Relationships

i miss my ex

Breakup

My bf and I haven't met from past one year and also can't meet for a while.
He says because of that he's doesn't feel anything for me, no affection or no love. But he doesn't want to break up but nit sure he loves me or not coz he can't feel it due to lack of in person contact.
But I still have feelings for him despite being distant from past 1 year. I am not sure, should be with him or not. How can he forget how does it feel like being with me or can show no affection after spending two years in a relationship. Am I wasting my time?

Love

Edit: I think I'm getting attracted towards X again...

I met someone online, really liked his company. After 2 months of constant talking, he just stopped talking to me. Let’s call him X.
I felt very lost and hopeless for 2-3 months after that. Then he calls me & wants to become friends again. Meanwhile, I became really close to someone else who filled in the gap. Let’s call him Y.
And I met Y first and we became really close. In fact, we’re very comfortable around each other. He helped me get through some of the toughest moments of my life including borderline depression. Recently, he confessed to me & I like him a little too. v platonic again.
Soon after, X was in town & we met too. Totally platonic excepting holding hands (although he said he wanted something more). But I was so angry at him because he’d ghosted me & he gave me an explanation after 8 months. I wanted to meet him to tell him that I don’t want to engage in his company. Instead, he said he likes me & wants to take this ahead. Of course, all my feelings came back and I couldn’t hold back. I feel like I want to forgive him but his mood swings are erratic. I have 10 days left in the city & I don’t know who to choose & how to get over X.
I told X that it’s too late now & I’ve met someone else. but the ‘if’ always remains. What if he hadnt left.
I know I’ll regret being with him but he stood me up. And it’s been a bad phase. And I cant think of anything else but how to get over it. And Y has been such a good friend. Although I dont feel so strongly for him but I do love his company.
Am I cheating on any of them???

Guys, I need your help. So there is this guy with whom I was kinda on a flirt stage but our flirt was on the grounds of genuine like of each other. Then for some reasons we could not be together and now he is with someone else. Before, he would express his feelings with gentle touching on my hair or face, nothing over the line. But now that he has a gf he still does those things sometimes. Like I'm so confused. Him being like that, makes me think of him the same way before which is wrong, i should not like or love him anymore. So I'm planning to tell him about this and ask him to stop it. But how should i explain it to him? I don't want to be harsh or anything but should I let him know that if his like that it effects my feelings? Or what.. How to say it. any idea? 

3am Thoughts

I have a little crush problem.... I have crush on this guy and we often flirt and things like that. I know him since i was born. He would often tell me how he wanted to kiss me, be with me... i started having feelings for him. So we would flirt like every night and we would talk a lotttttt. I really thought he wanted to have shomething with me. 3 nights ago i started our usual flirting. I said i wanna kiss him. He said he can't kiss me bc he has a girlfriend... They started dating before few weeks. I was so sad and embarrassed. Tears started roalling down my face. I felt really bad and i felt a lot of feelings i can't explain. I don't know if i should move on or wait... Maybe their relationship will end soon, maybe he will love me after. I just can't let go of him. He was only guy I felt comfortable with, i felt safe with him, i felt like he loved me. I am not trying to ruin his relationship with that girl, i will probably wait for it to end... I need help. So should i wait or muve on?

 PART 1
I am a 23 year old female living in India and It's been more than 2 months I talked to my ex boyfriend with whom I ended a 7 year of relationship. It was getting really toxic and we both were getting hurt in it. I was not able to love him anymore because he used to use abusive language for my parents (because one time they found out about my relationship and wanted me to break up with him but I didn't breakup and just started hiding and lying better) and I couldn't handle that, I tried my best to make him understand that it hurts me and he should stop doing that and he used to promise that he would stop but everytime we fight it would eventually come back to that. I allowed him more than I should have and regretted all of it. Maybe it was all my fault that it didn't work out between us. Or maybe he made me feel like that, I don't know. All I know is I was very loyal to him always and he couldn't trust me at all and I can say this based on this incident that happened last year I don't know for what reason he asked to check my entire apartment (including bathroom and under the bed as if I was sleeping with someone else) in the morning on a video call (I was working in Goa at that time) and I was so hurt that I couldn't even talk to him, and the most stupid thing he said was "I don't trust your roommate and she might have some guy over in the appartment and you wouldn't tell me because I will get mad" and to top that he checked the appartment after my roommate left. How can I take that stupid excuse of his and think that he trusts me? I stayed there for 1.5 months and cried mostly every other day because of the fights and eventually quit my job and came back home and sat home for months without job I still couldn't meet him regularly bcoz of strict parents but he was happy that I came back home. I was so invested in him that I didn't had any friends(I still don't) bcoz I was busy with either talking to him or fighting with him. Earlier I used to tell him everything and I mean literally everything about my feelings, family issues, A to Z in all detail but with all this things happening I eventually stopped sharing my feelings with him because he just wouldn't understand any of it and would like if I would have just done the things he wanted me to or would use my feelings against me in next fight. In this 7 years a lot of things happened in my family which shook me and I couldn't handle the pressure of hiding a relationship from my parents and tried breaking up with him a few times but he would always talk me out of it and I also stayed bcoz I loved him.
       Before I broke up we were fighting a lot and I started ignoring his texts and phone calls and he was threatening me to call on my mother's phone and my sister's phone if I wouldn't pick up his call or if I wouldn't reply to him on time. It all really hurts me and he knows that and still did that and left me crying sleepless every night in fear that what if he called on my mother's phone, and i kept thinking how would i handle that situation, it was really depressing.
       Inspite of all this today I still miss him and I do care about him a lot. I wonder how is he holding up without me bcoz he didn't wanted to break up with me and I ended up blocking him on all my social media and also blocked his number. I still hope that he would be fine and able to move on happily and find someone who can love him and stay with him. I don't hate him because I can't hate someone I loved with all my heart and soul. I don't know what I did was right or wrong but all I knew was I needed peace and sometime for myself. 
    In my next post I am sharing his last email to me. I don't know why I still care about him so much even after being so hurt. Please read it and let me know your advice on my situation. PART 2 is already posted.

My boyfriend and I (both 20) have been in a relationship for 3 years now. I was always insecure but having a boyfriend who "forgot" to tell me stuff just made it worse . Even the I trust him completely.. some things have decreased that trust a little.We were about to breakup last year because 2 of his friends (1 girl and 1 guy) hate me and kept constantly bullying me through sarcasm (taunts) about my insecurities but I he said I deserve better and can'tkeep hurting me. I wanted to give it one last try and I told him I want to confront those 2 friends and I want you to tell them to stay away from my business. We wanted to do this in 2020 but things came up and we decided to push it. It's 2021 now and he didn't bring it up once. I did. He said he told them the last time he met them to stay away. But the whole point was him saying it in front of me,with me.. which he is read to do again. When I asked him what he told them... he merely said he forgot. I cant stop crying because that conversation was very important to me... such an excuse .. after we came to that solution after going through so much..  I don't want to lose him.. but I can't translate every single thing to him.. when I told him I need him to remember else we're done... to my surprise he said do whatever you want to I don't know but I cant remember the conversation.. It's breaking my heart. He is the most selfless and kind person I've met and I love him but.  If this is how he wants to sort things out then I can't see a future with him. I also cant think of breaking up... please help me

Hey all, 
I am very sad and anxious. Yesterday night I cut off ties with a guy with whom I had been on talking terms since a month. It happened because i was not liking his behavior, I politely told him to stop talking to me, but he did not understand, I had to block him. he reached me through a new id and he kept on pestering me to stay with him, again and again telling me that he wants to be with me, he will keep me happy, he would take care of me etc etc, he was telling me "mujhe chod ke mat jao" and he went on and on for 2-4hours like this, till I was irritated and frustrated with his texts. He went on to questioning me if I am in love with my boss, he is nobody to ask me personal questions and this question was a personal attack . He had never done any ideological discussions with me, I saw his Facebook just today, it's filled with misogynist and antifeminist and vulgar posts. I strongly felt that I need to throw him off my life, I blocked him again, but somehow I am feeling guilty because of the emotional thing that he was exhibiting. He was crying, worried and asking me not to leave. I know what I did was correct but then I also feel a little guilty about putting someone into such a emotional state. What if he gets so disturbed that he can't move on, what if he loses his daily energy and gets depressed, there is a chain of thoughts like this in my mind. What shall I do to relieve myself, I am very anxious.

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