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Anonymous

I am feeling that all my friends were using me just because i am good at video games and I was helping they in the game and feeling so happy to have they was friends, but, i stopped to play with they, I was trying to contact any of they but no answer, I am in a discord server with they, and there have a voice chat only for moderators (i was one but they removed my role), and when I enter in a voice chat that they are, they exit the vc and go to the moderator or a private one. I am really sad that they arent reals friends and they used me as a ladder. I am feeling betrayed and lonely.
Sorry if you dont understan my english, i am from Brazil.

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Anonymous

Hey
Why don’t you just confront them about their behaviour?

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Benjamin @randompersoninth...

Confront in what meaning

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Anonymous

Ask them why exactly are the behaving this way

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Benjamin @randompersoninth...

I am insecure to talk with they, because we are on the same school and we know each other in real life

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Anonymous

I understand but telling them about how you feel will make you feel better and will help you get out of it

@noorarora2630

So i have been kind of feeling the same lately. I feel side-kicked by two of my very close friends who are now getting along. The best advice i can give you is that you directly talk to them once about you not liking their changed behaviour. But if they still don’t understand and continue treating you the same then you should probably back off. Once you learn to be happy on your own you really don’t need anyone. From your situation, I assume you are a teen and in this age, you will find many friends. Some will stick around others will just be like passing stones. So its okay. Be sad for a while and then keep your head up. Show them that your happiness doesn’t depend on their behaviour and trust me its gonna kill them seeing you are okayy

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Benjamin @randompersoninth...

Yes, I am a teenager, I have 14 years, I finishing grade 9, and after grade 9 its high school here in Brazil, but my school dont have high school, it finish in grade 9, I gonna try to do my highschool in Canada or united States, so I going to forget all this I am going trough I just need to practice my english.

@noorarora2630

Sure! Its good to know that you are ready to forget this and start with a new beginning. Your life has just started. Go ahead with positive vibes and see how much life has to offer to you

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Anonymous

Hey I read about your problem and I think confronting is a great option if you feel comfortable enough…but from what I have read I think (and it might seem harsh) they were a toxic friend group and you are enough for yourself and you don’t need them! Just keep playing the video games and let’s hope you outrank them!

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