I am feeling regretted for not marrying a person who tried alot to convince me for marriage but I refused and thought of marrying my bf… but the peace which I feel with that person I am not able to find that peace with bf…now that person is married and I dont have any option…just to marry my bf… My bf is very good and nice person…but I dont know why I dont feel that happiness…In my thoughts I feel why I rejected that person…I should have married to him…I feel regretted every second…and get panic attacks by looking that person with another girl…and am not able to find happiness with bf…
Sometimes u vibe with certain people differently…it doesn’t mean that u are meant to be with them…it’s all abt destiny…u are with Ur bf coz u were meant to be.For example, a girl and a boy are best friends and they have known each other since a very long time…they are happy n they vibe whenever they are together…but they are in a relationship with someone else. So some people are only meant to be Ur friend and not Ur partner. U are with Ur bf so try to forget everything that happened. As u said u feel sorry for urself for not marrying the other guy but now if the other guy is happy with his partner u should also be happy with Ur bf. U know it well that sometimes we meet the most unexpected people at the most unexpected time. So cherish the moments with Ur bf. And try to forget things coz overthinking will not change anything ❤️!!
Every line means a lot to me…Thanks a lot for understanding my issue and providing me a virtual strong support…I feel better now…whenever I am panicking now I am reading your comment…thank you
Riyan @riyanisawesome
I feel like you really need to understand that if that guy is now happy in his married life then you shouldn’t try speaking to him. Who knows may be both of them aren’t perfect for you. And i hope you find your perfect match soon.
Actually I am getting married to bf in 2 months…I thought that he is very genuine and nice person and cares for me alot in every situation…we are together from 5 years…so I thought that I ll not find that type of person again who do everything to make me happy…just only thing I feel that Even too try not to think about the other guy…only thing comes to mind that I dont feel that real happiness with bf and Regret that I should have married to other guy only…
Riyan @riyanisawesome
you still have 2 months to decide and i hope you choose wisely.
