I am feeling pretty awful. The prime reason is because I am 23 and I don't have my life together. My partner who I thought loved me. But last weekend, he blew up on me. Then on New years eve blew up on me. I put the clothes he had on the floor in a bin thinking I was helping. But no. I just made him mad. We took molly and acid which didn't help and he got even more mad at me. Asked me what do you want from me to make you happy. I literally just wanted to have sex with him in that moment.

My answer him now. I want you to love me and not be so mean. Like nnow, I need support. But no don't text me, 

3am Thoughts

I am feeling so bad like i love a guy but he is always into him .He doesn't even tries to understand how bad I feel the way he treats me. He was my boyfriend and now he is like idk just stay but you're not my gf .what should i do 

Relationships

I have been in relationship with a guy from last one year. Most of our relationship we have lived in different cites due to pandemic. He stops talking to me for days and when I ask he used to say that he was busy with work. I mean I understand we all have work pressure but when you are in a relationship you can't just think about self. I am also working and I have had bad days at work myself but I never took it an excuse to cut him out of my life. He had done this (stopping to talk and talking again) so many time in this year, that now it has stopped bothering me. He stopped talking to me a month back and I didn't even feel his absence from my life this time (earlier I used to affect me badly). I don't know if it makes me a bad person, I think I no more have feelings left for him.

Ok so this is something I m holding up since a really long time because it is about someone really close to me but now it's getting on my nerve so the thing is i know a person who already have a boyfriend but this person hides the fact of having a bf and start talking to a very introvert and innocent boy and giving  him so much attention that he will end up falling in love, and it irritates me because that guy will get hurt really badly and i m feeling really trapped because I can't tell him the truth 
I don't know what to do 


Cheating

I don't know what to feel. My boyfriend and I are of the same age. He lost his father 3 years back, he has been looking after his mom and sister since then. He has a lot of responsibilities on his shoulders. Recently he left his job and has started his own business along with three of his best friends. He is currently not in a good position financially. 
My family has been asking me to marry someone and settle down for a while, and when they asked me again, I told them about him. At first they were reluctant because of his situation, but for the sake of my happiness, my older brothers asked him to meet them. My family's intention was to speak with him and his Mother and to talk about our wedding and decide on a later date (he said we can marry after we turn 28 and my family was okay with it),  I. E. fix our wedding. My boyfriend was reluctant about it and he said he cannot talk to his mother about us right now (she doesn't know about us) because he has a lot of responsibilities as of now and he needs to set up his business which would take time. Hence he did not meet my brothers. After a couple of times of asking him to meet them, they said they won't allow me to marry him. As I'll be turning 26 they are worried about my wedding and want me to move on. I don't know what to do.
I love him a lot and I am ready to wait, but I know my family's claim that they need an assurance in the form of engagement is also valid. My boyfriend says he's unable to provide that assurance now and asks me if I can wait for him. My family asked me to break up with him and move on. Can somebody give me their thoughts on what to do  😢


Hey,  my boyfriend is feeling depressed recently.
Feeling void inside. He feels like stuck in life. He says, he miss me all the time but he don't feel like talking. He is saying things are not at all okay for him but i am sure he loves me so much. I dont know what happened to him. He was such a happy person. He feels like stuck with life.  What can i do to make him okay or feeling cared. I don't want him to feel lonely. Please tell me how can i help him get over this.



Depression

Just need a third person's view on this!!

I have been into a relationship from 2015. I spend lot of my time and energy into it in the beginning. I always saw potential in him and wanted him to do better thinking he would also do the same for me. He did ,but not how i expected.

 He persuaded to be little physical.  I was little physical but i never initiated on my own. He likes to travel and take me with him but it would always mean staying in one room and being little physical which i didn't like. He starts doing other stuff like cleaning room, brining my groceries to let me feel he's not forcing things and making me comfortable. 

First time when i told him i want to break-up for the first time, he started crying. I felt really guilty. Now it's been 5 years being in relationship. In quarantine i don't miss him that much. I don't like calling him regularly. I feel exhausted taking care of him and helping him in stuff. 
He told his parents on his birthday that he wants to marry me even when i told him not to. When i told him my parents are not really happy to get me married to him, he said he'll ask my elder sister who knows he's a friend. I don't want to involve her into anything. But he keeps dragging her.

I don't know if i'm emotionally unavailable person or i'm being manipulated.


I have a boyfriend but he is not caring enough for me and worse is his friends judge me too much although I have done nth wrong with them. My bf and I have been dating for almost two years but he rarely talks or takes things seriously. I can't even talk to him about my daily problems which makes me feel lonely. In fact, I have talked to him about how I feel frankly but he fixes for just a while and gets back to his usual self after a while.
But I meet this another guy at school who is very caring and looks forward to me. I keep my distance although I can't reveal I have bf at my school. But he got close to me a lot and again my bf's friends talk bad about me for posting group pictures with him and some of my friends. So I told my bf that I don't like his friends judging me but he also didn't want to trust me! And yesterday, he told me to choose between him and that guy out of nowhere. I was crossed and it even make me want to lose trust in myself like am I not faithful? Do I like that boy more than my bf? Who is in the wrong?

Toxic relationship or what tell me please: So it started with a relationship which lasted 2 yrs. I met this guy(let's say Y) through a frnd on insta for dating purpose only. At that time i  had got out of a relationship and he was also single but he was obsessed with his ex who left him. Since I on the other hand had made no efforts in the earlier relationship, was willing to do everything I could do in this relationship. Although I was talking to my ex but Y on got in a relationship with his ex with whom he was obsessed while being in a relationship with me. This continued for 2 months when again that girl dumped him and he he decided to stay with me.. Until then I was unaware that he was in a relationship with his ex. I started listening to everything he said or asked me to from blocking guys on insta to stop talking to my girl friends I did everything to please him and show him that i was loyal to him and I won't do anything like his ex .. 6 months later he found out my chats with my ex ( I had stopped taking to my ex in the 3 month only) but he created a scene for that he called my ex and my ex being my ex told him how I wasn't serious for him and all.. He told me all nasty things for talking to my ex and came back with me but in a way that he was doing a favor on me. Then 8 months later I found out from the chats that he was in a relationship with his ex I just asked him casually that why he did so for which he did all sort of drama that I am sorry I did it by mistake now I love only u n all. Again I got back with him constantly pushing myself to prove myself to him that I worthy of him. Then once my old guy frnd msged me on WhatsApp I did just hi hello and then I blocked him thinking that if he finds out he'll create a scene.. I did mentioned about that frd to my best frnd so he read it from her chat and when I told him that I deleted the chats he called that guy and went and fought with him and then told. Me all bad things about how I should be loyal and all to him.. He took my WhatsApp after that. Then after some time it was my best friend's birthday but he ordered me not to go there and did emotional drama that if I am important to u then block her. I did that even and got away from. My friends. I even cancelled going to delhi for my clg studies and stayed in my city because he said he can't live away from me and long distance doesn't works. He asked me to take a girls clg here in my city but my parents got me into a coed one because it's reputation is better and studies are also better in it. So he had problems with anyone I had a talk to.. I just msged a guy from clg and he saw it on my WhatsApp and told me I am slut and all sort of things which no one should hear. Then he cried and apologize and said to come back .. I was so dumb I got back with him and as he said that he was changed person I even sent him a conversation with a guy classmate after that but again he told me how I was flirting and was too friendly with that guy just because I had send a 😂 emoji. He told me he wants to end it and doesn't wants to stay with a person like me "jo dusre ldko ke gand me ghusti h" . Then we brokeup but he wants to be just frnds now and says he'll change himself but I don't understand a person who tells his frnds that I cheated on him by talking to other guys when all I ever did was had a normal conversation, how can this guy change and if he wants to stay frnds what can I do because when I tell him I don't want to be frnds he asks me to meet him and then he manipulates me with crying and I can't see him crying and miserable and if I disagree to meet he gets angry and calls my mom. And threatens me to call my family and tell them about us. I don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP ME! 

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