Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

This is the problem, i cant do stuff that i feel like doing… m questioned all times… hence i have stopped doing things what I like… and when I see my frenz and family njyng and having better life I get sad… my another reason for sadness is I compare a lot…

Hi ma’am
Thank you for opening up
Being a working mother is very very challenging
Can understand that…
It is double the responsibilities
Sometimes the working mother gets so overburdened that she forgets the responsibilities she has towards self.
Plus there is so much we all expect from mothers…
Being a mother is sometimes a thankless job.
Mothers are often taken for granted …
Mothers look after everyone
But noone looks after them.
Feeling so sorry n concerned for you…
Pls try to express about your feelings to your family…
Make them understand…
Donot tolerate silently…
Tell them u need some liberty
U cannot be answerable all the time…
Tell them u deserve some ME TIME…
ME THINGS ETC…

n pls pls pls donot compare with others
I know it is so easy for me to write
But this comparison will only make your situation more miserable
It will aggravate your pain…
Because ma’am even ur friends might be having some problems…
Sometimes we look at only the half part or side of someone’s life…
Maybe they might not be having something which u have…

Eachone’s life is different
Eachone’s situations and circumstances are unique…
So comparisons donot hold good…
Sometimes for our own mental peace
The only choice left with us is
TO ACCEPT…
TO BE HAPPY IN WHAT WE HAVE…
Wishing you all the good luck
May u get all the happiness you deserve n desire…
Take care of urself.
Stay strong…

I am a working mother and despite this i cant do stuff that i feel like doing… m questioned all times… hence i have stopped doing things what I like… and when I see my frenz and family njyng and having better life I get sad… my another reason for sadness is I compare a lot…

So you compare a lot, and if you find it difficult to stop comparing, then start competing too. Try to be happier than they are, and for that, you need to do what you feel like doing. Do what makes you happy, and then compare yourself with them, and you will realise that your life is a hppy one too, all you need is to feel happy. Hope it helps.

The reason why I compare is coz I am not allowed to do things that I want to… all my aspirations have got drained… my josh of doing things have gone null… i want to reactivate my energy but things go in vain.