I am dating a guy who is really nice but always thinks that I am a people’s pleaser and taunts me whenever I am about to make plans or go out with my friends somewhere he wasn’t like that before yes i before in the relationship i did give attention to my friends but now its not like that then too a small plan i make with friends and there he goes “give time to others only” i am loosing my friends in the process and i don’t want to, help me guys!!!
You’ve to talk ur bf about the this clearly… that u can’t lose ur friends
I have but then he feels really bad that I am wholely blaming it on him
ITs not fair…he needs to understand
How do I a make him understand if I tell him Except you i have a world he feels extremely bad
Happened with me as well! What’s your age?
19
Do you guys meet regularly you and your bf? And do you scare at your home if they find out about your Realtionship?
We do meet regularly and my parents are Aware about our relationship
Is he introvert?
Yes
Yeah that’s the reason even my bf is introvert he has very less frnds specially no female frnd I’m the only female frnd he has and he doesn’t talk or make frnds and it’s like introvert wants us to be with them only no one else… Try to talk with him on this make him understand your point of view, give him some eg which he can relate… It will take time to make him understand but eventually he’ll I made my bf understand this after being in relationship for 1 year and now he is really understanding
Thank you so much I’ll try and make him understand
