I am applying for Chandigarh University for BCA. But due to financial constraints, I am having a lot of problems. It is even hard to apply for loan especially when my father has retired. And I don’t know there is so much going through my mind. Last date to pay my semester fee is 29th of this month. I just don’t know guys. Just so much…
Hey go for it. Ask your dad to help now somehow if he can and once you are done with the payment opt for part-time jobs along with studying search for paid internships you can also try out online tutoring this way you could earn for your expenses and also pay for the loan.
I will try to search for income sources but right now I am having difficulty getting into the college. My family is not in full support as Chandigarh is quite far. Moreover my parents have no savings and it is hard to find a bank which will sanction the loan. Right now I am energized but sometimes the battery is so low that I have very bad thoughts😅.
[Btw thanks for replying. Only you replied on this post :) ]
My pleasure. I can definitely relate with you because I going through the same issues. Don’t let your mind fill with negative thoughts. You will get into your dream university. All the best!
Thank you. I am trying and I think I will succeed somehow. And even if I do get into the university. A very hard decision probably is waiting for me. It is quite a long story so I am gonna skip it. I just hope I don’t have to take that decision.
Hey if you want you can share it with me. I am sure you will feel better and if I can suggest you something
First of all I didn’t get a notification when you replied on this post so I never knew you replied😅 So the thing is (I hope you don’t say "not this shit again"😅) I believe in love from any religion and I want to love that person even if she is from another religion but my family is strict. Like super strict. My sister did this and now she is an outcast. I am afraid of the future
Try talking to your parents and convince that you will be happy with her and that she is the right person to be your life partner. Rest what can k say bcs it’s a sensitive topic and I also don’t want you to get hurt or to hurt your parents. Just have faith in God and know that if He wills both of you to stay together and you are going to stay together no matter whatever obstacles comes in between. You both will overcome everything.
And also another question is your partner’s family ready to accept your relationship? What does your partner says about this? What’s her perspective about inter faith marriage?
She is agnostic like me (doesn’t know whether god exists or not) though both of us are a little scared of after life. It’s all so messy. Nothing seems clear to me anymore😔
Thanks. Today I went to about 6 banks with my mom and I think there is still hope. I will try in 3 banks mainly. Let’s see how it goes.
Even if I do get into the university. A very hard decision probably is waiting for me. It is quite a long story so I am gonna skip it. I just hope I don’t have to take that decision.
First of all I didn’t get a notification when you replied on this post so I never knew you replied😅 So the thing is (I hope you don’t say "not this shit again"😅) I believe in love from any religion and I want to love that person even if she is from another religion but my family is strict. Like super strict. My sister did this and now she is an outcast. I am afraid of the future
