I am a terrible person. So I have been talking to a guy for almost 10 days now. I love talking to him. I want him in my life as a friend. I knew he had feelings for me even before we started talking. Now he has fallen hard for me but I still want him as a friend. He wants to be in a relationship but I am not ready for any sort of commitment right now. I just have broken up two months ago. I am not looking for relationship right now. But I have got too attached to him and I am unable to let him go. But he is hurtful just being friends with me. I don’t know what to do. I want him in my life as a friend but do not want to commit to him.
If you like him back, but are not able to commit because of your breakup, then you should ask him to wait till you get okay with it.
Tell him to give you time.
Think about it and take a wise decision.
I don’t think I will ever be able to commit to him. He just is not my type. But I like the attention and I need someone right now as I am very vulnerable. But in the process I am being selfish and hurting him.
I don’t know how he is not your type but is still like your best friend.
He’s your friend cause u guys share similar interests right?
Or is it just because of the attention he gives you?
If it’s for the attention then you can easily find other guys…
Tell him he’s not your type rather than acting like you are intimate with him and giving hopes…
Yeah it’s the attention that he gives me.
Find someone else.
U wanna be friends with me?
Maybe later.
deefuwu @deefuwu
Sure. Drop a hi if you fee like
Sure.
Sanket @sanket
This is a classic situation and the guy for sure is gonna burst on you. However, hope you find a way to cherish a friendly bond, I really do
Doesn’t seem like right now.
Sanket @sanket
So are you looking for ways to balance it out?
Yeahhhh. I want to be friends with him and not hurt him also
Sanket @sanket
It’s worth noting that you are not the one who can bring balance here.
It is he who needs to understand that it is okay to develop feelings, it is okay not to be in a relationship, and it is okay to be good friends with you. Of course, this will hurt but if handled he may get a good and long term friend.
Somewhere try to convey these thoughts too and remember to be polite and gentle each time.
