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Anonymous

I am a girl & i am in relationship for 2.5 years now. Me n my partner literally fight every 4 - 5 dys and 90 % of time its his mistake and he knws that . Every time fight happens he yells at me abuses me , my family , my frnds (not in front of them) blames me which arent related to the current fight most of them are false blames and later he says sorry for straight 3 - 4 dys and says he won’t do that again and my heart melts & i forgive and then this happens again. I am really tired from around 2.5 years this is repeatative situation. We both are very attached to each other so He won’t allow me to breakup whenever i say i want to breakup he blames me for no reason and bring literally 2 years past fights . We are together since 2.5 years . we Have many close phtos of us .we arent settle ri8 now . My parents want me to get married now. They dont knw about him and he isnt ready to confess our relationship to parents. I want to get rid of this relationship but i he wont allow me and abuses me and blames me i am really afraid if he misuses our photos which can lead obstacle in my future married life please help what should i do how should i get rid of this relationship ?

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Anonymous

Try to get his phone when he’s not around and delete those photos. Also, make sure if he has any copies in cloud, or other devices and have them deleted before breaking up.

You can share your phone password and ask for his, and tell him that this is a way you are trying to build trust in the relationship. It may work if he’s emotionally attached to you.

Lastly, it is a cyber crime to expose intimate pictures without the permission of people in pictures, so if worst case happens you can take a legal action against him.

I truly appreciate your choice of breaking up and coming out of such toxic relationship. Kudos girl!!

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Anonymous

Tell him what you feel strictly and also tell him that you will either tell your parents who will then approach the police or that you will approach the police yourself if he misuses the pictures in anyway. As for the relationship of you are done with it then trust me there is no point dragging along. You need to end it and stand your ground. You cannot get emotionally blackmailed by him. Block and delete him from everywhere if need be. From what I can tell you have a toxic relationship and you should get rid of him ASAP.

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Anonymous

Thanku ur advice means a lot !

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Anonymous

I Will follow the same😊 glad to talk to u

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