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I am 34. When I was capable of handling myself, she came into my life. She loved me, the way people imagine. That was all unbelievable for me, but yet I was enjoying my time with her.
She came to know about our different religions, but kept loving and talking like before. When I asked about marriage she said it’s not possible. When I strongly asked for marriage, she just started pretending to be busy.
Who responded to me on a single call was not picking my calls even after 50 calls. I became more frustrated and shouted at her to be with me. I tried to make her remember our love, I tried to make her understand me, feel my love but every time things changed after a few days.
I cried a lot in front of her to have her in my life but every time she refused. Now when she knows I am unable to handle myself in this situation, she clearly said I don’t see any future together.
Now I understand why you shouldn’t indulge in love. My mind is a mess, I know I can hurt her in many ways but I don’t want to because I love her. But I can’t keep calm because I know somehow I’m betrayed and this feels awful. Now I’m good for nothing, she made me the worst version of myself.

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Now i figure out why somebody said Love is the most twisted curse of all

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Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495

It happens people do that they want u when things r good and leave u when they found things r not good some comes with explanation some simply ignore and gone so that is life people come and go at their will u cant force them u cant ask them anything and then life goes on still 👍👍 so keep work on yourself

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Bhavna P. @bhavna_pande

You’re going through a really tough time emotionally, and it’s understandable to feel hurt and betrayed in a situation like this. It’s clear that you cared deeply for this person and invested a lot of yourself into the relationship.

However, it’s important to recognize that you’re not responsible for someone else’s actions or decisions. While it’s natural to want answers and closure, it’s also important to prioritize your own well-being and mental health.

It might be helpful to seek support from friends, family, or a therapist who can provide a listening ear and offer guidance as you navigate through this difficult time. Remember that it’s okay to grieve the loss of the relationship and take the time you need to heal.

Moving forward, try to focus on self-care and activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. While it may not feel like it now, there is hope for a brighter future where you can find love and happiness again. Take things one day at a time and be gentle with yourself as you heal from this experience.


Thanks Bhavna, I appreciate your help and support


It’s hard to let someone go. But do it because she wants it. Do not try to achieve someone only because u want it… u know things well as u r more mature than me. Hope u find peace soon. 👍

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I know you are going through a very tough phase but kabhi na kabhi let go karna hi padega na.
To dheere dheere abhi hi try karo.
Heal hone mein time lagega par trust me you should start taking steps for yourself even if it is difficult.
Make small steps
Go out with friends,try to engage yourself in work or anything that requires lots of attention, meditate, start doing things which you like.
I know you might think it’s easy to say all these but I can’t but trust me you can do it.
You are such a beautiful human inside out.
You don’t deserve this suffering
Please help yourself
Take help from your friends or anyone you think they will be a great help for you.
Cry as much as you want.
But remember you still have to be strong.
One more thing acceptance is very important.
Just accept that she is not going to be yours.
It will hurt but it is what it is

And don’t call someone 50 times uthana hoga to samne wala 1 mein hi utha lega.
kuch nahi hota samne Wale ko fark nahi padta isse apko hi or bura lagega , frustrate hoge so mat karo.


Thanks for your suggestions. Although all doesn’t apply to me but I appreciate your suggestions. And yes bura to lagega mujhe hi, even if I want that love and care. I have very few friends so I thought it would work for me and I was happy. But


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