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Anonymous

I am 30 plus and not married…I am successful professionally and haveba supportive parents but am I made to feel like a looser by the society just because am single,I am not against marriage it’s just that I haven’t found the right person…why is my education…my financial stability…my success in career all ignored just because I am girl who is not married…this makes me constantly feel like a burden to my family and self…I don’t love myself anymore and this feeling is eating my peace of mind…I am somehow convinced I will never find true love… please help …I need others Pov…I need to know am not alone in this 🥺🥺

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@reesha

Hey dear,
I can relate to you.
I’m in my early 30’s as well, happily unmarried.
You are not alone on this.
Try finding a friend whom you can think of marrying in future. Try dating apps like CMB …etc you might get some likeminded person
Also, you marry or not marry as far as you are happy that’s important. Try to be happy, invest time on your hobby and create saving.
We women are enough and self sufficient. I’m with you we can connect.I m proud of you for sharing this.loads of love and support from sister from another mother 🤘

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Anonymous

Thank you so much 🙏

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Anonymous

Hey i know about alot of my brothers friends both girls and boys who are 30+ and single. My brother himself. My fathers friends son whos 35 married a girl his same age. So definitely 30+. And the list goes on. This is just about the people i know. There are thousands more out there. Sameera reddy(bollywood actress) said she found love at 35. Its better unmarried and happy than marrying the wrong person and unhappy. If u want to find love i suggest u to meet people with the intention to find love. Ive heard that the universe responds when we open up to the world. So dont panic my friend. ❤

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Anonymous

Thank you so much …

Anonymous

honey who tf said that if you are a girl and 30 and unmarried u are a loser? fuck the society okay. marriage doesnt solve any single shit in your life. Live your life and enjoy. Love finds you. u will find it too. but u r not an object whos expiry date gets over aftr 30. there are ppl who find love in their 20s n fuck up their life at the same time there are ppl who find love in 40s too n live happily. you can find urs but dont rush things whn u do just cz ur 30. you are young n shud enjoy life. And if you hv a job u r not a burden even if u dont u r not. your insecurities are cz of the society dont let it affect you.This is not easy but if u feel overwhelmed maybe move to a different city. Start fresh. Maybe thats a stupid idea but starting new is always great.Take Care❤️

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Anonymous

Thank you so much 😌

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Ujjwal @ubrdj

Can anyone guarantee a successful married life after marrying at a particular age, be it after 20, before 30 or after 30 or whenever it is done??
If yes then please provide the documented proof or give me such person’s contact info🧐 I have multiple questions 🤓

Getting married is not as easy as having a piece of cake and not a one day activity, it’s about the entire life ahead. There are many factors involved in it. It’s better to marry late than marry the wrong and regret!!

You know your life accomplishments and don’t expect people to understand them, many of them may not have achieved it and don’t know it’s value.

People don’t live your life, you live it and let them do or say whatever they want. You need to optimize your thinking as to who’s opinion is important for you. Not everyone looks or works for your best interest, that’s only your responsibility.

They won’t do anything for you or your family irrespective of your being married or unmarried. They just want a happy meal at a wedding and any topic they can mess around and create nuisance.

Why are you so convinced that you won’t find anyone?? You don’t even know what might happen the very next moment then why so much conviction??

Hope something above helps!! Take good care of yourself, focus on yourself and your happiness…Let the so called Society do what it’s best at i.e. chattering unnecessarily.

You’ll surely find the one you deserve if you keep going in the right direction😊

Btw I’m 30, get such crap from some in the society and then they get logical questions n answers from me as there’s no eagerness to get married blindly following ongoing trends. When the time is right it’ll be done and no one can decide or dictate the right time for everyone as it’s never going to be one size/time fits all in this aspect of life😉

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Anonymous

Thank you so much…this is a different perspective 😄

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Supreeth @supreeth_02

I need a someone to start a converstion

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