MS @mit___
I am 28 now. And still I don’t have a good relationship with my parents. Since childhood, there’s a hate that’s always there for numerous reasons. Reasons sometimes I try to forget and move on. It’s easy while away from family but when back home, it all just comes back. Back I’m in square one self blaming self loathing situation. Maybe it’s all my fault. I just am not a good person. Parents are always right. Family always do what’s best for us. But still whatever comes to my mind, it all seems so painful, toxic, harmful and depressing. I just don’t know how to deal with all this. And I don’t think there’s anyone else out there with such a situation. But still, someone facing anything similar, just tell me I’m not alone. I’m not a worthless person.
We cant doubt parents intentions…they always want best for us…but they can surely take some bad actions, and we should give them the benefit of doubt bcoz they are too human and objectively speaking they are to trying to figure out living in this world as much as us…see them as humans making mistakes instead of parents who always do everything the right, bring them down from the pedestal of some divine creatures and just see them as human…youll be able to emphasize with them and it will make your relationship better i hope
I have seen worse in my family… I can’t even put those things in words… but i live alone now… i don’t go to my home town . Because it makes be depressed… i ll suggest you to stay away from anything that is killing your mental peace… because this feeling with family is going nowhere… Whenever we see our family we get a flashback of everything… And they aren’t going to change… i know there are most of the people out there in the world who thinks that their parents are always right… may be they are . But they are not for us… I know this struggle…
MS @mit___
Thank you
🤗🤗… don’t worry… you ll handle this
