I am 28 and Gayπ³οΈβπ Still in the closet. I am sick of pretending to be straight. This also prevents me from getting into any relationships. I have been told number of times that the clocks ticking and it is now time to get married and settle. But I donβt see myself getting married to a woman. I want to come out eventually but just not able to gather the courage. Any thoughts on whats the right thing to do! I would like to hear your coming out stories which will help boost my confidence.
P.S: Im also looking for decent guys to date maybe eventually get marriedπ
P.S : I live the United States ! Desi gays in USA hmu π
U seem like u have reached the age where ur old enough to choose for yourself, so wether ur inside the closet or not, wether people know about it or not, ur a free person and u should live ur life however u like, so go out, meet guys, date, have some fun, dont limit yourself for other people, they are not the ones who are gay u are so only care about what u think
Iβm 18 and closeted so I might not be the right one to give advice but you mentioned you are from US and ik desis are pretty homophobic because of the way that we are brought up but Iβm hoping at least since you are from US the people there are a bit more accepting. Maybe you could start off by coming out to your close friends and as for your family first educate them and get them use to the idea that two men can love each other without it being wrong. Iβm sure they will accept you. And regarding dating you can potentially find someone you like on dating apps.
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Iβm 28 and Les, π³οΈβπ
I live overseas and find it rather easy to put away the talks about marriage since they mostly happen over callsβ¦
I have come out to people who must knowβ¦ the rest can assume whatever they likeβ¦ and I choose not to give a definite answerβ¦