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Priya @priya___

I am 26. Unmarried. I really want to adopt a child. How do you think I should convince my parents?

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I have a similar plan. The gist is to not really convince them. If you live on your own and can support a child, do it. If not, then focus on being independent enough that you don’t have to seek their permission.

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Priya @priya___

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Well I earn enough by god’s grace that I would be able to support a child but the problem is I stay with my parents. In that case their permission is needed.

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Anonymous
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If you’re looking for their permission or validation, you are not ready to adopt a child.

There is a difference between consulting your parents and seeking their permission.

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Anonymous
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Well I think no matter how old you get, in some part of India we still seek for permission/validation from elders. It’s a way of respecting them and letting them know that they matter. I think I can always try and convince them. And just because I am seeking for an approval from my parents, it doesn’t mean I am not ready to adopt a child.

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To be very honest bht acchi soch hai but … We are living in India rn ur 26 within 1-2 years mea perants shaadi karwa denge tn after that within 1-2 years mea aap ka apna baby hoga tb is bacche ka kya jo aap god lena chah rahi ho … I’m not demotivating you but u just need to think practically…
Is kea alawa if u want so u can take responsibility of any child like us ka education… but no show off it’s my opinionβ€¦πŸ™‚

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Priya @priya___

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Shaadi kisko karni hai. Aur show off koi nahi kar raha :)

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Yarr offend hone ke jarurat ni hai and India hai ya and to be very Frank hm us generation kea bacche hai jin kea maa baap ke seene mea bhagwan nea ek button deya hota haiβ€¦πŸ˜‚ Bs ek baar yadi mom ya dad mea sa kisi nea apne seene pr haath rakhkar aahh kar deya na to saare sapne or payar mohobbat jo bhi ho sb chodkar shaadi kea leya Han kar dogi… I’m so sorry in advance but ya hote hue dekha hai apni aakho sa to just bol deyaβ€¦πŸ™‚

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And btw tm ek accha kam karne ke soch rahi ho so just don’t ask to anyone… just go ahead and do it because har insan aap ko apni buddhi kea according he bolega… so best of luck 🀞

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My comment is in review whenever it will up u just check and think about it. .

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Let them know about your wish! They might agree if you convince them with good logic. Why do you want to adopt a child? How will you take care of adopted child? What if you plan for getting married after few years then will your husband accept the adopted child?

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Priya @priya___

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I think it’s the most useful of all the comments that I went through. Thank you. And yes, it did make a lot of sense.

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Kundan Kumar @kundan0809

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