I am 25 and I have never had any relationship in my life. I am not really close to my parents and siblings but I am very emotional. I canโt really share my thoughts with anyone, even best of friends. Since childhood, I always thought I would find someone special with whom I will connect on a deep emotional level but it hasnโt happened and now I think it might never will. When I tell my friends about this, they just say, be grateful for what you have. The thing is I donโt have what I want the most, attachments, someone to lean upon when things are not going my way. Am I wrong in believing so?
Hey
Hey
Dude โฆpatience is the key โฆyou ll be having your great time with a great person as well ๐ฅ
Donโt lose hope and Patience ๐ฅ
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Sahil @sahil98
Atleast first us you are he or she then maybe you will find someone here
Noโฆ You are not wrong in beleiving soโฆ Iโve had relationships in the pastโฆ Toxic ones mostlyโฆ I know how you feelโฆ I feel the same โฆ Even Iโm highly emotional and sensitiveโฆ My feelings are also most of the times misunderstood or not understood at allโฆ But someone once told meโฆ That being emotional and sensitive can be your biggest asset and your biggest blessing โฆ you can feel and communicate people on such deep level and understand them at such a level which normal people can only think of soingโฆ And even if you donโt have someone in your life to depend uponโฆ it is not something which is missing from your lifeโฆ Yes there maybe times when you would need a shoulder to cry uponโฆ A listening earโฆ But thatโs just the icing in the cakeโฆ
Hey thanks for this.
No, you are not wrong in believing so, but you are wrong when you say it will never happen. How many times have tried connecting with a person of another gender? If you donโt try, you donโt get it. And for someone to connect with you at an emotional level, it takes time, sometimes years.
Itโs not that I have not tried. Maybe not like a hundred times. The problem is that when I start liking someone, they fall for someone else before I do anything. This has happened atleast 5 times. Sometimes I feel like the universe is conspiring against me.๐
If it has happened 5 times, Maybe youโre doing something wrong. Maybe you need to change a bit. No offense. Maybe you were right all 5 times, but still, you have control of yourself only. Maybe itโs time to do things differently.
What can I do differently? Like the moment I know I am into someone and should go for it, they find someone else. I have barely thought about it and it goes haywire before I can do anything. So I donโt know what should I do.
