I am 21 and i have never been in a relationship be it casual or serious. I am too confused sometimes i am like i am happy being alone but sometimes I feel like itβll be great to hold hands with someone, dance with someone, but again what if it doesnβt work out. What if it gets toxic ? Is it better to be single π€? There were a few girls who found me cute and wanted to talk but i walked away like i am bad at social interactions and i always have negative thoughts since I have seen so many friends of mine going through breakup π i am like what if it doesnβt work out. Shall I date or just get a job live in an apartment and just get dogs.
Works for me
πThankyou
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Dont overthink , you cant predict everything beforehand so just go for it
I know but when I was 17 or 18 , i actually had a crush on someone and she found out and it didnβt work out. I was too broken and sad. I cried a lot and it wasnβt even a relationship. I just donβt want to feel that way again. I know itβs stupid but isnβt it better to be alone and get dogs instead. I love dogs they are the best π. Now i am not allowed to keep pets at home but 3-4 years more and Iβll have my own apartment and Iβll get dogs π€©π. Watch Kdrama , play with my dogs and then off to job . Yessssss π€©
If you develop a crush or feelings for someone just go for it, there are both good and bad experiences when it comes to dating but I feel like this is something you should definitely experience :)
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Thankyou all for reading my thoughts and replying to it. I am so happy now. Thank you. Iβll heed all your advices. Work in progressβ¦ π