I always tend to seek validation from others… I love being around people I want everyone to like me… But now I am realizing I dont love myself enough… I am not comfortable being alone
deeeeepppp @deepthing
can I ask how old r u ? Iam feeling u soooo bad
i am 21
how old are you? i am also feeling the same way
my close friend told me that i was depressed so i seeked validation from others and wanted everyone to like me
i always had this fantasy that i would keep being single with work, anime ,dog and so on
but recently i have this urge to be in love
to want this person who would care for me, listen to me and share each others thoughts
and then again i get depressed
caz i want this person of my same gender but it is not accepted by the societ nor do people living here know about lgbtq
then i think i wish i would have been of the other gender so i could love freelly
so yeah u are not alone on this
well i think love is love… even if you love same gender its not an issue… But i can understand the urge to have a romantic partner cause i have been through that phase, after i have dated 3 people now i am sure that i am not ready for that i just want friends who i can count on but they fall in love and once i say i am not into relationships they end the friendship, which hurts like hell
So now I have decided to work on myself become a better version and fight this anxiety that i have
thank you i was depresssssed over this matter for months after knowing others go through da same i am depressssed(1 less ‘s’)
dont be depressed (how many s you want) everything is going to be alright just believe in yourself
