How to take a boy out from your mind??? please help!!!
There is this boy at my workplace. He is just perfect…exactly how I want my future hubby to be… everyone in office says it’s quite evident that he likes me. But I don’t wanna rush things. May be it’s just a fling? May be it’s just because we meet each other daily? May be that’s just how he behaves with every other girl?
He is like 11/10 and I don’t even come close to 4/10. Each time we discuss something related to us…he says imagined if we get married and jokes about it.
I just.came out of a 5 year relationship. I’m vulnerable. And this boy is Just always on my mind. Pleaseeeee help!!!
I can’t ignore him cuz we are working on the same projects.
I don’t wanna get hurt again. But he is just so perfect that I can’t stop thinking about him.
Sometimes the fling is also the hint…
Morever just go with the flow and try to concentrate more to the project as he is with you in it so maybe with the success of the project you two may come more close…
I’m trying to do that. But I just can’t get him out of mind. He is thought of my mind alwaysssss. Idk why idk what idk howww
Why to do that…if he makes you happy (in your thoughts too) then i guess let it be and atleast you are friend with him…
I guess in today’s time people are craving for happiness in thoughts too…
Yeahhhhh. He just knows how to make me happy. He is like the only support system I have. The problem is I just broke up wdh my boyfriend. I’m very vulnerable. Even a slightest ray of kindness will make me fall for them.
I don’t wanna get hurt again.
Even if we are meant together, I’m not ready for anything now.
Take your time… And its not like that he asked you on a date…so just take your time.
Or else take a break and think about the things you need to figure it out so you can be happy with him and your past won’t be struck in your mind and make you hurt…
(Its all about your experience that hurts)
Yeahhhh will do that. Thank you soo muchhh❤️🥺
If u have 1% doubt drop him , I too had a girl at internship , she was ideal , but when I digged deeper she was just another sham , so be open with instinct than eyes / heart
Idk what kind of instinct he has. He exactly knows what’s on my mind each time. It’s like I can’t even hide what’s on my mind. It’s not even been a month since we know each other. But he knows me deepest secrets all of my insecurities which I have never shared with any human ever. He just understands me even without me uttering a word. Idk what’s gng on.
You just suggest that I focus on the project?
Let’s talk in person?
Yeahh
Saurabh Kumar @aesthete131...
Let’s have a conversation on this and maybe then I can help u in it.
Nope thanks it’s fine
Naina Reddy @naina_23
Use your brain to think rather than your heart. Please don’t ever think that anyone is better than you. Just don’t. He can be faking it. So for my thinking you also could not develop things for him untill and unless there are signals. Just simply ask it, it’s better to get these things clear rather than assuming
I’m just scared if I go and openly ask him…it would spoil our friendship. And honestly at this time, i don’t have any other real friend.
Naina Reddy @naina_23
See from your post I understood that you really like him. But you don’t want another heartbreak. So it’s better to leave things things the way they are. Time will surely answer to your confusion.
Don’t worry if he really likes you then he will make a move.
Yeahhh trueeee. I think I like him. But may be that’s because he is kind to me . He was there when everyone else left. He is helping me move on from my worst heartbreak.
I think you are right, let time clear the confusion…
Vipul C @lupiv
In all these conversations, one things become clear. So far you’ve been on your toes coz your gut/ mind/ heart say so. Have trust on these faculty of yours. This is the 6th sense, the Spidey senses tingling. On an off chance you slip, well that’s life. You act, you might fail and you’ll learn. Be optimistic. Your life is YOURS, let it be on your terms. Be sensible and go crazy
Thank you so much♥️ I’m trying my best.
