How to stop thinking about someone who don’t give a dam about u like what is proper way because the more I will ingore that person more it will pop up in my mind then what is right solution for this.
I am going through the same phase. Trying hard not to think about that person. Distracting myself and talking to the people who are glad to talk to me is helping me. Keep yourself busy. I know its hard. But its all in our mind, we gotta control it.
Yes and u know I did control that but again that person and I lose myself but again I m trying my best not to think about that person but somewhere in my mind that person’s thought come man. Today few minutes ago I decided not to call that person because that person didn’t answer my call so I decided not to call but again I end up with calling her 🙂
Heena Sharma @yourdentist
Please Don’t call. Control this urge to call or to tell her that you miss her. You know its a fact that when we chase people, they feel we are weak and weakness/negativity repel everyone. Be strong for yourself and you ll see they will wonder where the heck you are. Tried and tested.
Excalty I don’t want to chase infact I realize it. One day I stopped calling her and notice that she didn’t call me for 2 weeks.
Heena Sharma @yourdentist
So why would you want attention from a person who do not even notices you. Value yourself, you are worth more. That was a good point where you reached earlier because 2 weeks was a good enough time. Do that again for yourself
Yes why I want attention because we have great memories together like hanging holding hands and watching sunset. And etc and how can I stop expecting from myself ?
Its just that you have to move on for now. Gather the courage and be strong. You know a person who doesn’t value you at your lows is not worth it. I wish you luck 🌼
Mayank @true_who
Take that pop up on ur ego, face it nd make urself enough strong mentally that it won’t affect u. Ignorance is must. Even distance urself from person. Keep ur busy indulging in activities nd have a person to share anything.
Totally agree with you but last line is not possible I don’t have anyone in my life with whom I can share because everyone is mean 🥺
Mayank @true_who
U can tell me