How to stop myself from falling in a one sided relationship?
Why don’t you express you feelings?
We don’t talk that much. And I am not even sure if he feels the same even.
Answer will always be no until you ask. And if you’re not sure why don’t you just confess
Detachment
Stop stalking over them
Start focusing on yourself
Do the things which makes you feel postive, good about yourself…
Nowadays the only thing makes me genuinely happy from inside is thinking about him in various imaginary scenarios of mine when I am not even sure if he even thinks 1 percent of the same or if even he is right for me or not? What if he is just a rebound that my brain is thinking about to get attracted to? It’s just too much confusion in my head.
Sometimes I even think maybe I am not good enough for somebody or what if they aren’t. What if it is just a waste of my time and energy like the previous one? That’s why I don’t get clarity how to act on it. I do want to detach but the more I try to detach the more I feel vulnerable to falling. I just become really happy when he messages but I don’t think he is thinking the same. I really hate that I am simping for someone so hard
increase the weight on your side from the fulcrum, simple physics dude!!
How
If you don’t see yourself with that particular person in coming years then just stop investing your energy in them.
Because it will drain you and how can you be happy if something drains you ,and if you are not happy then what is the purpose of staying in that situation.
Give priority to yourself and you’ll eventually attract someone who loves you unconditionally.
I hope making your mind by giving thought to the above mentioned things will help you in moving on.
I know, I have just been through a breakup and I know I am really not yet ready because of where I am in terms of my personal growth. But I overthink, alot. So that’s becoming a problem because I kind of crave for someone to be beside me, hold my hand through life but not hold me back at the same time. I just wanted somebody to move with me. And I don’t know yet if he is that person. But he comes in my dreams, my thoughts and it is just so special everytime while at the same time I know, that none of this is real because he is not what he is in my head. He is a different person and maybe not what I imagine all the time. It’s just that I am falling before knowing him fully or before even thinking that I am not ready for anything. I have alot of personal and professional goals in my coming life and don’t want to look back in regret the time I lost. But the only problem is I am not able to implement all this.
Listen one thing
One sided love
One sided friendship
One sided efforts
One sided care
Will hurt you in the end…
The one that call it love is it really love?
You might be thinking about them all day, you might be imaging several things inside your head… they don’t exist honestly they don’t…
But still brain wants solution instead of confusion…the more you strech it the more you get hurt… confess your feelings straightforward…if it acceptance you maybe in cloud seven…but if its rejection you will eventually starts to move on…
Because no matter what other people say to you now …you have that “what if” so change your what if into " thats it"…
And if its rejection dont take that over your ego…talk here communicate well …but dont let the emotions ruins you mental peace
But let me tell you one thing if its two sided love turns into one sided you are doing nothing well just hurting your feelings in every single day, my words may really harsh to you. But never invest there where you are not appreciated 1%
