Healing
I dont think this has nthg to do with healing if so explain!
Well bcos you said you keep falling into loops. And this shows repetitive patterns. Repetitive patterns are often inside of us, our habits or wounds from young. Repetitive habits are the only thing that we know is right. So in order to change that, you need to heal your inner self and bring a change in you. This would also help you to stop attracting the same patterns.
How do we self heal?
Well, to start, you should get to know yourself. About you. What you like/ donβt like, be sure about yourself. Know whatβs good for you. What suits you. Have a kind mindset for yourself. And to be more precise, write down about your feelings and your thoughts. Feel yourself. Recognise yourself. Your patterns and your actions. Find the good in you. Be grateful. Introspect. This isnβt easy bcos we donβt like to spend time with ourselves. But once you do it, youβll become self aware. And then youβll start to recognise otherβs behaviour as well.
Thankyou! β¨