You cannot stop being sensitive. But you can select things that may bother you.
You need to draw lines to determine what is important, and what all should bother you.
So things that you can control can bother you… Things that are out if your control should not affect you.
This way you can get your list shoter of things you are sensitive about…
Its nothing bad in being sensitive. It becomes problem only when u get disturbed by each and everything.
I will always take things which others says about me.And it spoils my mood.
Dear
No need to sopil your mood for that.
Whatever you do, people will have something to say… good or bad.
So do whatever you want. Don’t let others opinion bother you. Its your life not theirs. Live it your way.
After a long friendship when my friends leaves me and go I get heart broken. Then I will think Why Im so sensitive.
I completely understand. I was in similar situation. This is worth being sas.
I had a bestfriend. She was my friend since 2nd standard in school. Now we both are working. So about 15 years of friendship.
Now its been a year we have not even texted eachother. Things were good. Suddenly she started behaving different. Slowly i start noticing that she is trying to drift away. Back bitching, making stories, excuse… And what not.
I tried to repair as i dont want to let this bond go so easily.
But sometimes it’s ok to let people go for your own mental peace.
This is called outgrowing in friendship.
Few signs to identify if u or ur friends have outgrown in friendship
- you are both to busy to make plans. You sense the outgrowing distance, as text go unanswered and plans are not finalized.
- nothing new to connect on, you. Your friendship is centered around past moments.
- you guys constantly fight. It no longer a matter of talking things out.
- the conversation no longer flows. You find awkward pause, no longer natural rhythm of conversation.
- you feel drained after interacting with them. You are not able feel relax in their presence.
