How to move on from a one sided love?
Ik I won’t be able to confess it, so I’m thinking just to let go of it but it’s too hard I just can’t stop thinking. It feels like I’m giving up but I don’t want too.
I’m so confused rn.
I’m too confused about the answer from the other side, but I still will try.
Thankyou🖤
Try to confess otherwise you’ll always carry the load of regret. And most importantly you’ll whats from the other side and thn you can take steps accordingly. Best of luck :)
Yes, I’ll try to confess it.
Thankyou ❤️
Joy @jpande345
Don’t worry everything will be fine!
I know how you feel, I went through it.it took me 1 year to overcome it (I know it’s long period) maybe because he is my best friend (he is still my best friend) and I had to face him every single day because we study together and I spend my half day with (nearby 12and half hours a day) and now I know him for 14+ years .
I never confessed because I knew it’s answer somewhere.
So I’ll tell some things to do to fell relax and make your heart to feel at ease.
1. Write it down what you wanted to say to him. ( Because the more you’ll keep it to yourself it will kill you from inside)
2. Stop forcing yourself not to miss him ( The more you’ll do that it will remind you more things about him {it human nature and that’s normal}.
3. Practice self love
4. Make yourself your first priority.
5. Keep yourself busy and do something productive.
(I’ll tell you a fact when a person fell in love that person because little bit unproductive 🤭)
I’m still his best friend and he’ll always be. I still spend time him but now I keep my feeling away.
I love myself more than anything.
It took me a long time to Myself, years actually.
So i have prespective towards people like
" With that being said, you either like me or you don’t. I don’t have time to try and convince anyone to value to All that I am. If you want to misunderstand me , do."
That’s my problem !
Oh my godd!
Thankyou so much for explaining it so well to me.
It’s just that what if I try and the outcome is positive then I’ll be the happiest but if the outcome is negative I won’t be able to take it, so I was just thinking to let go of it, but then also my heart says that atleast try. Confused feelings you see!
Anyways about the part of self love, you wrote it so well.❤️
Thankyou so much!!
Joy @jpande345
Your most welcome.
Hope you get clear with your thoughts soon.
And decide to confess or not.
Best of luck ✨