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How to handle yourself and not compare to others… I’ve a few close friends who have been very lucky to be in a few relationships… I get very upset that I am not in a relationship and it’s not like I don’t try myself…but somehow I’m unable to find someone who i can enjoy with… 😔 This gives me anxiety and I fear a lot that I might not find someone myself

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How old are you dear.

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24… So I feel that I should be having a good social life by now

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Lol. I’m 25. And i suck at being social.

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And if anyone asks me who your friend is. I can’t really answer. Bcoz i don’t know clearly.

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And romantic relationship, not even in dreams. Studied mech engineering, at work no girls in team. And friends, barely any. No visits to social places. No chance for me.

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Am i anxious, yes. Do I wish for a more social life. Yes! But I also wish for some solitude. And less drama in life.

And social anxiety keeps me away from ppl.

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Don’t compare yourself to your friends or others social life. Obviously easier said than done although works wonders.

Moreover I feel that if you keep on chasing something specially a relationship of any kind you’d just end up not getting it. Slow down a bit and try not to chase. Give yourself all the time and energy. And see how it works out.

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